Thanks @frillyfun the meditation course was one we both wanted to do, she came to part of it bit couldn't do it all because of work. She actually hoped it would have a positive effect and expressed that prior to the start so it was not like I was off playing Buddha while things were turning to custard at home. By the way, it has worked, the course gave me something and took away something which has allowed real core change to happen in me.frillyfun said:I had a shitastic marriage, and took my H to phase 6. We're alright now.
Listen to Athol, run your MAP- it sounds like you have some definite reds, and go from there.
She's upset about your finances, but you're taking a meditation class? Fix the finances man. That stuff can wear on you- you're constantly worried, and if you're worried you're not horny. They're mutually exclusive states.