Have to echo this. I spent quite a bit of time on the shrink4men site while I was laid up. I ended up convincing myself (and some folks on this forum) that my wife was BSC.Reborn said:I saw you posted on another thread about a shrink4men article on hostile dependency. It's an interesting read, but I would ask you to be aware that (a) it's not a widely accepted concept, and (b) shrink4men is focused on men with badly disordered wives - it's NOT a neutral site. It tends to take a position of "lets work out what's wrong with your wife".
You would need to take a careful view of whether your wife is as bad as what that article is describing.