Just wanted to check something. These naked sammiches are all part of the deal right? Because if I don't get some then I am gonna be onto Amazon asking for my money back.
For what it's worth I don't think @BallsyWoman was a troll. I think there was a reason she was surfing a site about how to fix marriage problems. But maybe was just a little too proud to admit anything was wrong in her perfect world.
Just wanted to check something. These naked sammiches are all part of the deal right? Because if I don't get some then I am gonna be onto Amazon asking for my money back.
For what it's worth I don't think @BallsyWoman was a troll. I think there was a reason she was surfing a site about how to fix marriage problems. But maybe was just a little too proud to admit anything was wrong in her perfect world.
I agree. I kinda doubt she's out reading marriage blogs purely for the intelectual challenge.
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Note - If you a FO with a Lazy Bear or Low-T husband, ignore everything I say. It probably doesn't apply "As he works on his MAP, he's going to do things that piss you off. He has to." - Steu2817 "In a world of Alpha's there is no peace for anyone.....welcome to Somalia enjoy your stay" - Highlander2
Wow! I got to page 3, where BW stormed out, and there was still like, 3 more pages to go!
You can see why she's here. Early life experiences, not her fault, where her father was controlling and abusive. So she has a big fear of abusive and controlling men.
And yet, what happens next? when she's young she dates a controlling and abusive man! Amazing how that happens
And now she's married to a man who sets firm boundaries and takes the lead and makes decisions: pretty much exactly what Athol teaches.
So there's a huge cognitive split there. She needs to believe that THOSE controlling men are BAD, whereas THIS one that she married is GOOD. Completely different. Spanking good. Obeying bad. "Bossing around" very very bad. "Firm" statement of "the decision has already been made" very very good. Completely different. Husband good. Forum bad.
And that dissonance is the thing she came here to work on. How to bring herself together.
Enneagram type 5 w6.
If I offer lots of advice, it's probably really me giving advice to myself. That always seems to happen.
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Note - If you a FO with a Lazy Bear or Low-T husband, ignore everything I say. It probably doesn't apply
"As he works on his MAP, he's going to do things that piss you off. He has to." - Steu2817
"In a world of Alpha's there is no peace for anyone.....welcome to Somalia enjoy your stay" - Highlander2
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