I appreciate that my husband didn't lose hope for our marriage at a time where I felt hopeless. He hung in there and never doubted that we would work it out.
We are complete opposites in abilities. Her strengths compensate for my weaknesses and vice versa. Together we make an awesome team. She is organized, awesome work ethic, loves s clean house, keeps up laundry, 17 years and she still reaches to hold my hand when we're walking in public. She makes me want to be a better man.
Cutest green eyes and smackable butt.
Goes out of his way to help those he cares about.
Gives fantastic back rubs and butt massages.
Makes the best cheesecake and sandwiches ever.
Cute when he sleeps. Loves to smuggle. Loves to sleep and snuggle.
Ambitious at work.
Determined, for example, working out regularly.
Affectionate in a boyish kind of way. He has a "serious" personality, but when he's affectionate, it's like he's a sweet teenage boy . It varies depending on how much stress he's under, but it helps with libido for sure.
I appreciate how my wife takes charge of finding all the best deals for clothes for our children and also how she works at saving us money through couponing.
When things are going well i love how she is vulnerable and affectionate. Little things like telling she misses me or is looking forward to hanging out with me at night. Our dumb playful texting throughout the day.
I appreciate how much she cares about keeping the house clean and just being a good SAHM in general. After hearing horror stories about other moms I really appreciate her.
I have a habit of losing things. Where are my keys? Where is my book? Where is that thing I need to return to the store? I go into a crazy trying-to-find-the-thing frenzy. It makes me nuts and makes me kind of hate myself, but Hunky Love Man is totally cool about it. Sometimes he helps me look for the thing. Usually he just smiles and tells me I'm adorable when I am looking for the lost thing.
This week the kids and I have been sick. We are also in the middle of a home project -- painting the kitchen cabinets -- that has our kitchen in a state of disarray. GE is working hard to finish the kitchen so I can put it back together and restore my zen state.
AND yesterday my car had a problem so he took it to the shop to get it fixed. He takes care of all the car stuff.
He isn't a hearts and flowers kind of guy but when he makes sure my car is safe it makes me feel loved.
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
Had a tire blowout on my way to work, and DH turned right around and came to find me in his big truck and changed my tire. Made me feel all warm and protected.
Didn't grumble a bit, either. "I'm on my way," and he was.
Older thread here, but I thought I'd add my two cents (good thread, @MrsJon!).
I love how my husband has worked so hard on himself for us and for him, and how he is always striving to be a better person. I love how he had so little (not just financially but in every way) when we met and has built such a wonderful life with me. I love how he is so wonderful with our kids and is an equal parent to me, and our kids adore him. I love how much he tries to make me happy and feel good physically. I love how he straightens me out when I get crazy. I love the changes he's made in himself and how hot he looks now. And most of all, I love how much he loves me. I'm a lucky girl.
great idea @MrsJon. I really appreciate that my safety is never a concern around my H. I was previously in 10 year marriage filled with emotional, physical, and sexual abuse....lots of threats and intimidation. My current H has never called me a name, has never raised his voice to me, has never threatened me, and never acted BSC! I know it's supposed to be a given that a man wouldn't act abusively, but I still very much appreciate I don't have to live in fear anymore. Also...he has amazing legs, arms, and shoulders. And he will gallantly euthanize any creepy crawly thing that tries to scare me (spiders, wasps, etc!)
"Proceed with being awesome" (even if others are shocked) - frillyfun
I appreciate Mrs. Cart's ability to point out when I start to slide off the Captain's Chair. She doesn't know the terminology or anything about MMSL but she calls me out when I start to lapse.
Put back on course via a 'One Hour Call' with Athol. Seriously worth 10 times the cost, but don't tell him that....
“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” - Victor Frankl
I'm going on a road trip tomorrow. GE changed the wiper blades, cleaned all the windows thoroughly, and filled the gas tank so I can head out without any hitches. I that guy.
I love the beauty of my husband's body especially his eyes, penis, mouth, and hands. I love how he thinks I'm sugar and spice and everything nice. I love how he saves people and land and knows all about how to keep me and our baby boy safe.
I really appreciate the planning and thoughtfulness that Jon displayed this week. He checked the calendar and realized we had all of the children's Dr. appointments for physicals, dental cleanings and an Optometrist appointment on various days this week. I had been planning a rest week and am going away for the weekend. Jon called and rescheduled all of the appointments for one day next week and scheduled that day off, so he will be taking care of it all. Thank you @jon. I love you.
I went looking for my dreams outside of myself and discovered, it's not what the world holds for you, it's what you bring to it. Anne Shirley - Anne of Avonlea
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We are complete opposites in abilities. Her strengths compensate for my weaknesses and vice versa. Together we make an awesome team. She is organized, awesome work ethic, loves s clean house, keeps up laundry, 17 years and she still reaches to hold my hand when we're walking in public. She makes me want to be a better man.
We recently moved house. H put up (non wall damaging) hooks and put up pictures all over the house so we don't have blank walls anymore
Affectionate in a boyish kind of way. He has a "serious" personality, but when he's affectionate, it's like he's a sweet teenage boy . It varies depending on how much stress he's under, but it helps with libido for sure.
When things are going well i love how she is vulnerable and affectionate. Little things like telling she misses me or is looking forward to hanging out with me at night. Our dumb playful texting throughout the day.
I appreciate how much she cares about keeping the house clean and just being a good SAHM in general. After hearing horror stories about other moms I really appreciate her.
This week the kids and I have been sick. We are also in the middle of a home project -- painting the kitchen cabinets -- that has our kitchen in a state of disarray. GE is working hard to finish the kitchen so I can put it back together and restore my zen state.
AND yesterday my car had a problem so he took it to the shop to get it fixed. He takes care of all the car stuff.
He isn't a hearts and flowers kind of guy but when he makes sure my car is safe it makes me feel loved.
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"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
Didn't grumble a bit, either. "I'm on my way," and he was.
and yes, he's an engineer, too.
I love how my husband has worked so hard on himself for us and for him, and how he is always striving to be a better person. I love how he had so little (not just financially but in every way) when we met and has built such a wonderful life with me. I love how he is so wonderful with our kids and is an equal parent to me, and our kids adore him. I love how much he tries to make me happy and feel good physically. I love how he straightens me out when I get crazy. I love the changes he's made in himself and how hot he looks now. And most of all, I love how much he loves me. I'm a lucky girl.
I should update here:
I love how my wife is very organized and an ultra planner... it keeps the family unit running smoothly.
I also like how wife has opened up to more sexual talk and is starting to express herself just a little bit.
Put back on course via a 'One Hour Call' with Athol. Seriously worth 10 times the cost, but don't tell him that....
“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” - Victor Frankl
I love that she takes pride in her wifely duties, like keeping the house clean, grocery shopping, and shopping for the kids' clothes.
I love how she appreciates my masculinity and doesn't try to change me into a feminine version of myself.
I love how she prefers me to lead.
There's more but I'll leave it at that.
He checked the calendar and realized we had all of the children's Dr. appointments for physicals, dental cleanings and an Optometrist appointment on various days this week. I had been planning a rest week and am going away for the weekend.
Jon called and rescheduled all of the appointments for one day next week and scheduled that day off, so he will be taking care of it all.
Thank you @jon. I love you.
I went looking for my dreams outside of myself and discovered, it's not what the world holds for you, it's what you bring to it.
Anne Shirley - Anne of Avonlea