I have question for the forum. My wife and I are pretty regular in the sex department. The other night my cat jumps up on my lap and starts pawing at my like she is nesting. Off handedly I remark that I am getting a lap dance. My wife just kind of smiles so I say,"you could give me a lap dances too. She says that she would but is afraid that I would tease her and make her self conscious about it.
How do it go about soliciting this lap dance with her? She is a little on the conservative side when it come to sex. I want to open her up a little and explore some new things. In think this can be a step in that direction. Just want to make sure I keep it all positive and good.