I have question for the forum. My wife and I are pretty regular in the sex department. The other night my cat jumps up on my lap and starts pawing at my like she is nesting. Off handedly I remark that I am getting a lap dance. My wife just kind of smiles so I say,"you could give me a lap dances too. She says that she would but is afraid that I would tease her and make her self conscious about it.
How do it go about soliciting this lap dance with her? She is a little on the conservative side when it come to sex. I want to open her up a little and explore some new things. In think this can be a step in that direction. Just want to make sure I keep it all positive and good.
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Then, get a few glasses of wine in her.
Candle light only. It sets a mood.
Music.
No chance of interruption.
Tell her, with meat-stare eye contact to give you a lap dance.
Make many appreciative sounds/comments. No laughing/giggling.
Fuck her like a man possessed afterward. That part should be pretty easy.
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"Here, let me fill that back up for you." followed by devilish grin.
It may be cheating, but I say if you aren't cheating you don't want it bad enough.
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I have 3 and 13 year old girls, married 20+ years to an awesome husband just past midlife crisis who's battling lowT with shots and I have major ADD. We are in a much better place these days mostly thanks to this community. Thanks all!
Reason I'm here: to better understand the general workings of the male mind and help husbands and wives by providing insight from a mostly sane female perspective.
That said, even an attracted but shy woman will respond to the type of direction above. Tell her it doesn't matter if she doesn't know what to do or how to stripper-dance, you will tell her what to do. Maybe watch the movie True Lies, which to me has one of the hottest scenes ever filmed, the bedpole dance scene. At last half the hotness is him sitting in the dark, telling her what to do.
Don't know if this would help, but here's a thread an FO started for tips and encouragement.
marriedmansexlife.vanillaforums.com/discussion/2207/lapdancing/p1
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Remember to play!
Do the right thing, whether anyone is watching or not.
Be married, until you are not.
Email address: angeline.greenwood@att.net