Period Sex

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I did a search for this topic and didn't find any posts. Serenity will probably find some for me though, lol

So just as the title says. 

My W was on day 2 of period time last night when we had sex. We had two rounds. The first round for her ended with what she described as an orgasmic exorcism!   Her words. It was so intense she begged me to stop. It was about 5 orgasms all strung together. Ok, disclaimer, I was using a toy on her and it wasn't my magnificent manhood that brought this out, lol. But who cares. 

Then after a break was round two with about 5 more and a PIV orgasm

I've been tracking her cycle ever since finding this site and have noticed that it's not really ovulation time but Period time when she is most orgasmic. It can be a little messy, looks like the end of a slasher flick, but hey it blows both our minds

So enough backstory. Anyone else have period sex and notice that orgasms are different/stronger?

Mongrel

Period sex? What's that?

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Mongrel said:

Period sex? What's that?

Aww. I guess I've gotten lucky. All three wife's (that's the non-lucky part I guess) have been into period sex. They were just like, fuck it get a towel. Or it was shower sex, no complaints there. I can imagine though that a lot of women are grossed out by that. 

Hey, as Lewis CK once said, "I don't care if your on our period. I'm 42. I come over and fuck the shit out of you and drink the blood!"

Katt

Mad props for the Louis CK reference...

We do period sex and I think I am a bit more orgasmic than usual at that time.  

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@Katt‌  

That's what I'm wondering about. I know from the book that I'm supposed to be Super Alpha during ovulation, but really I didn't notice much in the way of extra horniness or FO initiations or being responsive to alpha things. Maybe I should kick it up a notch next time and see what happens. 

But period sex, obvious even before I started tracking her cycle, has always been a hot time for her... And by extension me 

I will reiterate that she is working through depression and is on meds for it. Maybe that is messing with her system?

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@Katt‌  

You don't think meds would mess up alpha attraction during ovulation?  As a woman you'd know better than me anyway

Maybe it's the female bodies way of saying "yay we're not pregnant!  Let's party!"  Lol

JellyBean

I think we have the opposite problem at my house.  I'm all in favor of sex no matter what time of month, but my husband has been super squicked out about it.  I ended up having an endometrial ablation procedure which means I hardly ever have any period bleeding anymore, but now he lives 3000 miles away so we still aren't having sex.

/whine

Scarlet

I am cursed with an annoying combination of intense desire and terrible cramps for the first two days, so while I really *want* to have sex, it would be painful to do so.  

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@JellyBean‌  

3000 miles !?  Is he deployed?

I'll have to put out more Alpha next ovulation and see. We have a bad habit of staying up late watching TV and having some Mary Jane...so obviously that could be messing things up. Next ovulation I'll make it an early bedtime and take some action!  For Science!!!  And Sex!!!  

JellyBean

@maxx138‌ ; We are in the process of relocating from one coast of the US to the other coast.  He went first to start his new job.  I'm still in the old place, getting the kiddos finished up with school, trying to sell the house, and dealing with some legal issues with my ex.  It has been a tough couple of months.

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@JellyBean‌  

Wow. That is tough. But it's all for the better. Think of the reunion sex!  Period or not it's gettin done, lol

Katt

I'm sure the meds could affect things for her.   Ovulation has never been way off the charts for me compared to the rest of the month.   I think the fluctuations vary with the individual a lot.   

growingafamily

I'm less adventuresome during bleeding as well. For the first couple days it's usually shower sex and don't worry about me. I still get grossed out by the mess, though not enough to avoid it all together. I think part of the problem is not so much the mess itself, why I don't want him to worry about me, but because we're in the shower.. I'm afraid to slip and fall and die if I don't, um, stay rational. Sometimes I'm ok with it though. Luckily my bleeding days have been shorter (used to be a full 7 days with 5 of them heavy, now only 5 all together with 4 of them heavier).

Katt

@mrs_h‌ shower sex only works with doggy (standing version) for us - 8" height difference here. 

growingafamily

There is only a 4" height difference between H and I. It makes it that much easier for sure. Doggy isn't our only option, standing and facing each other works as well. I come from a taller family--the shortest adult male I'm biologically related to is 3" taller than H, and they go up from there--but once he realized his height deficiency is what makes shower sex work, he owns it, lol. (not that he's actually pointed this out to my brothers or anything)

 Also our shower/tub has built in seats in the inner corner and the outer corner, and a handle bar thingy on the wall, so that kinda adds options as well.

growingafamily

Immersed in water just doesn't work.. washes away any natural lubrication. We take baths together sometimes but not with sex.

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growingafamily said:

Immersed in water just doesn't work.. washes away any natural lubrication. We take baths together sometimes but not with sex.

Agree. We tried in a hot tub once porno style and ya, it looks cooler in a movie than it plays out in real life. Very distracting, always slipping, always slipping out...lol

growingafamily

Well, you know, C. S. Lewis said in "the four loves" that you're supposed to laugh at yourself. That sex isn't supposed to be all serious all the time.

CountryDude

Did it once. It was very exhilarating for both involved. I think just due to the incredibly dirty nature of it.

It was kinds like be both knew it was so wrong, and that made it so good.

But yeah, the slasher movie POV was a bit weird.

Pen_and_Sword

Scarlet said:

I am cursed with an annoying combination of intense desire and terrible cramps for the first two days, so while I really *want* to have sex, it would be painful to do so.  

A good pounding at that time of the month has been known to provide my wife with some relief from cramping.

RedPillLearning

JellyBean said:

I think we have the opposite problem at my house.  I'm all in favor of sex no matter what time of month, but my husband has been super squicked out about it.  I ended up having an endometrial ablation procedure which means I hardly ever have any period bleeding anymore, but now he lives 3000 miles away so we still aren't having sex.

/whine

My wife had that done also, to relieve her from bad menstral cramps and pain. It was the best thing ever.  The pain is gone and she bleeds a little every few months.