I've decided its time to work on the money portion of my map and look for greener pastures. My job is crummy - low pay for what i do and poor management BUT its stable and does cover my bills. Basically I cant afford to lose it til i find something better/different. I have employable skills and a solid resume in my field so i have no reason to question if i will find a new position but I'd prefer not to have any time I'm not earning an income.
Question is - how do I keep my interviews under the radar if I'm already working? Phone/Skype interviews are fairly uncommon in my field (accounting). I do get PTO time but wouldn't it be rather obvious what i was up to?
I've never chosen to quit a job for another job so this is all new to me. I keep putting it off due to anxiety but there is no room for anxiety in the MAP.
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cell call in the privacy of your car at lunchtime?
cut out an hour early or come in an hour late ?
good luck
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I'm in a position that started as entry level and was promoted to a mid/upper level position within the dept (without a sufficient pay increase. Fail on my part) so my interview frame of reference comes from entry level status.
I hate the idea of lying to my current boss. I like him, just not his boss the department head.
80% chance they are lying to me, and were probably forced to resign. Which of course I wouldn't want to hire them.
15% chance their previous job was so miserable that they were going to have a breakdown. Which means they may be emotionally fragile right now, and I'm not running a therapy clinic here.
5% chance they are an idiot. I don't want someone on my staff who makes poor life decisions. It effects them at work too.
CG,
Don't feel guilty over lying about what you're doing during your PTO time or vacation days. If your employer asks, they're just trying to be friendly or show that they care. They're not (or shouldn't be) asking you to justify the use of the time off, so you're not really violating any ethics if you make up some little white lie.
If you're really opposed to any type of lying, you can deflect it by saying you have an appointment and there's a really long story that you're happy to tell them some other time (after you get another job!) but don't want to get into right now.
Good for you for having the courage to find a better job! Too many people continue being miserable at work and it really brings down their whole life.
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I have young children and work from home once in a while, so it isn't uncommon for me to be out of the office.
Just my $0.02.
Also, It's almost always easier to get a large pay increase by switching employers, than to try to earn a raise internally.
Depending on drive time, you could go to work an hour late or leave an hour early. Or you can take a long lunch. "I have an appointment" is all you need to say, or "I have some personal business." If you are a hard worker and are diligent in working your hours, your employer should be understanding.
One more tip — don't dress differently than usual on days when you have an interview. For example, if you never wear suits to work, don't show up one day in a suit, asking for time off. It's obvious what you will be doing. Instead, leave the jacket in the car and wear a cardigan to work.
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