Since my divorce 20 months ago, I've been having amazing sex with one particular woman. We've been "dating" for the past 10 months. And this is my dilemma. I very much like, and have become attached to her, so why do I "feel" I should get myself out there more. I'm new to the dating scene. Do I branch out, or stay the course.
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Do you feel like you need to date around some more to learn what type of woman you are best with? Does this current woman you're seeing fulfill enough of your desires for a new life partner?
Overcoming the idea that there is one person who will "complete you", movie nonsense aside, is a path to misery. That isn't just manosphere advice, that's just smart life advice. I think the issue here is that you don't feel strong enough to lead, that you'll cave at the first real show of attitude or poor behavior from her. Feeling like this one is The One automatically starts the relationship with an imbalance of power.
Date only good people. Select for the kind of looks that attract you, but then beyond that also discern whether they deserve your time. If it ends, it ends, it will be sad but survivable. Good people are worth a period of sad, but it isn't the end of the world. You'll be way better off if you treat these first few relationships as practice swings.
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Be married, until you are not.
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