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The new Porn Free accountability Thread

RedPillRonRedPillRon New York CityGold Men Posts: 642
in 6. High-Energy Sex
Out of respect for the last thread and the way it ended, I suspect no one really wants to add anymore posts to it. I feel that way at least and I suspect a few other do also. So lets pick up the torch and Finish the mission. Some of you are like me and we are not done. Some of us require support on this journey and appreciate the accountability. Lets do this.......

Day 36 no Porn
Day 36 no MB

"before you change your thinking, you have to change what goes into your mind" 
-Zig Ziglar-
Triage Posted here

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  • Athol_KayAthol_Kay My Underground LairPosts: 8,046
    Great idea, thank you.

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    RedPillRon
  • MiddleManMiddleMan Chicago BurbsSilver Member Posts: 1,898
    62 days no porn, something like 6 or 7 no MB. 
    RedPillRon
  • RedPillRonRedPillRon New York CityGold Men Posts: 642
    Day 37 no Porn
    Day 37 no MB

    "before you change your thinking, you have to change what goes into your mind" 
    Triage Posted here

  • BlueWolfBlueWolf The grasslandsSilver Member Posts: 606
    Didn´t realise there was a new thread. I just passed 90 days pornfree. Didn´t made a big deal about MB, that problem went away pretty much when porn dissapeared. Specially when I adopted the No More Nice Guy approach and just MB without all the fantasies in my head. Then MB is not such a big problem. Thats my tip anyway, stay focused on no porn ( and not much of lustful fantasies, you can create your own porn you know...) and the rest will follow.  

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  • CartB4HorseCartB4Horse Southwest USASilver Member Posts: 4,155
    You guys are doing great, keep it up!!

    Put back on course via a 'One Hour Call' with Athol.  Seriously worth 10 times the cost, but don't tell him that....

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  • BourneAgainBourneAgain Gold Men Zen Garden Posts: 1,660
    Day 24 - No Porn

    "Keep practicing the behaviors you want to reinforce. You will gradually change the wiring in your brain." - Serenity

    "The universe doesn't give you what you ask for with your thoughts; it gives you what you demand with your actions." - Steve Maraboli  (via Rapunzel)

    "Choose to enjoy the shit that makes up your life."  - AlphaBelle

    BlueWolf
  • RedPillRonRedPillRon New York CityGold Men Posts: 642
    Day 38 no Porn
    Day 38 no MB

    "before you change your thinking, you have to change what goes into your mind" 
    Triage Posted here

    BourneAgain
  • ahaaha GASilver Member Posts: 98
    edited June 2015
    Great idea... 103 days no Porn.  If anyone has insightful articles, videos, etc... on the subject, please share.  Let's keep the education going, as well as the accountability.  I watched this one when I was a few weeks in and found really helpful. 

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  • RedPillRonRedPillRon New York CityGold Men Posts: 642
    Day 40 no Porn
    Day 40 no MB

    Cannot believe it has been 40 days. I am almost at the halfway point!

    "before you change your thinking, you have to change what goes into your mind" 
    Triage Posted here

    BourneAgain
  • RedPillRonRedPillRon New York CityGold Men Posts: 642
    Day 41 no Porn
    Day 41 no MB

    "before you change your thinking, you have to change what goes into your mind" 
    Triage Posted here

  • RedPillRonRedPillRon New York CityGold Men Posts: 642
    Feels a little lonely on this trip!


    Triage Posted here

  • MiddleManMiddleMan Chicago BurbsSilver Member Posts: 1,898
    I'm 67 days porn-free, let's say 10 or so without MB, @RedPillRon .

    I'm not posting every day, but I'm sticking with it. 
    BourneAgainAngelineKatt
  • MiddleManMiddleMan Chicago BurbsSilver Member Posts: 1,898
    Ape said:
    Do you guys also stay out of the High Energy sex forum?  Because that's a lot like porn. 
    I don't think it's anywhere near the same thing. There's probably a lot more dopamine generated from videos than from the way we discuss sex here on the forums. 

    I suppose if one had a severe addiction to porn, it would be a consideration. But I doubt it's a problem for most. 
    Kattr9stone
  • RedPillRonRedPillRon New York CityGold Men Posts: 642
    I see it as more educational than pornographic in nature.
    Triage Posted here

    KattMiddleManr9stone
  • r9stoner9stone MI, America's High FiveSilver Member Posts: 1,174
    Day 90+ something porn free. Probably day 15 MB free. Not to worried about the MB part, frequency is maybe once a month. Nothing like how it used to be every single day.

    A friend did send me a text with a picture of an attractive nude girl. Looked at it for a second, thought meh, deleted it. Didn't do anything for me. Now if W on the other hand shows just the slightest bit of skin..........
    MiddleManBourneAgainBlueWolf318JimmyNow
  • RedPillRonRedPillRon New York CityGold Men Posts: 642
    Day 43 no Porn
    Day 43 no MB

    "before you change your thinking, you have to change what goes into your mind" 
    Triage Posted here

    BabyMakes5_dad
  • HowardHoward EuropeSilver Member Posts: 618
    r9stone said:
    Day 90+ something porn free. Probably day 15 MB free. Not to worried about the MB part, frequency is maybe once a month. Nothing like how it used to be every single day.

    A friend did send me a text with a picture of an attractive nude girl. Looked at it for a second, thought meh, deleted it. Didn't do anything for me. Now if W on the other hand shows just the slightest bit of skin..........
    Haha, yes DW is my #1 trigger. Great to see the torch still being carried here. I'm past the 60 day mark and kind of thinking NP Forever would be good. I mean, just watching women on the street gets me going these days, why would I want to look at someone posing or even acting? However, YMMV. 

    MB is sort of keeping me going as sex itself is still likely to be rare while I slowly build attraction. DW might suprise me anytime though B) !!

    One thing which is great is that my awareness of what triggers me in terms of attraction and fantasy has become heightened now porn is out of the mix. Sort of like learning to taste again after a decades-long ketchup eating experience, if ya know what I mean....
     
    "Do or do not. There is no try." - Yoda
    "Do more of what you love."
    BourneAgainBlueWolfTruman
  • BourneAgainBourneAgain Gold Men Zen Garden Posts: 1,660
    Day 30 - No Porn (But great sex with wife!)

    "Keep practicing the behaviors you want to reinforce. You will gradually change the wiring in your brain." - Serenity

    "The universe doesn't give you what you ask for with your thoughts; it gives you what you demand with your actions." - Steve Maraboli  (via Rapunzel)

    "Choose to enjoy the shit that makes up your life."  - AlphaBelle

    RedPillRonHowardBlueWolfUnBetaMe
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