This guy is toast

HildaCorners

We've had our share of perversions crop up, and some in fairly horrible ways. [Any old timers remember the demise of x123x or whatever his name was?] A site like this will draw them in, if only so they can get the additional "thrill" of pulling a fast one on us poor, innocent, vanilla monogamists. <heavy sarcasm>

Scarlet

I've been working with the public for a long time.  Ain't nothing new under the sun, and everyone has something they're dealing with that makes them ashamed, and feeling like they're the only ones.  They're not.

It's the same with bodies, honestly.  Everybody has some features they don't like, and even extreme issues aren't that extreme to someone who has seen a thousand people naked.  It's all the same in many ways, and everyone has the same needs. 

Husband3point0

This easily could have been written by my dad.

It's all a matter of perspective. The weirder your existence, the more that 'strange' begins to look 'normal'. 

Scarlet

We actually have some friends who opened their marriage and are not at all secretive about it.  He has some health problems, has ED, they haven't had intercourse in almost ten years.  She's free to sleep with others.  Technically he is too, but he really can't. 

I'm not saying it's a good idea, but I am saying it happens. 

seriously

Chateau Heartise agrees with many of our positions.  Fake.

https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2015/07/22/bottom-of-the-barrel-cuckold-fetishist-or-spinster-hoax/

themacnut

I remember overhearing a group of younger women (early to mid-20s it looked like) talking about open marriage awhile back. According to one of them, might as well have the screwing around out in the open rather than one or both spouses sneaking around. People are gonna go outside the marriage anyway, no-one's really faithful these days, she said, so might as well be up-front about it.

At that point I could not stay silent any more. I turned around and said, if monogamy and fidelity can no longer be expected from marriage, why marry in the first place? The massive verbal hamsterbation I got in reply from her and her friends was enough to make me smile.

MiddleMan

Boy, do I need to avoid reading Chateau Heartiste today. 

Angeline

MiddleMan said:

Boy, do I need to avoid reading Chateau Heartiste today. 

100% excellent idea. Bitter, bitter crap there.

Reborn

Angeline said:

MiddleMan said:

Boy, do I need to avoid reading Chateau Heartiste today. 

100% excellent idea. Bitter, bitter crap there.

Particularly the comments section. 

To me, the comments section shows who it's really written for. 

seriously

Angeline said:

MiddleMan said:

Boy, do I need to avoid reading Chateau Heartiste today. 

100% excellent idea. Bitter, bitter crap there.

And for me, its a good compass to make sure I'm not drifting into asshole alpha.  (It can happen.)  I never read the comments.  Most of the time, just the "article" titles.  I bet I only read about 10% of what's actually posted. 

alcockell

growingafamily said:

Tennee said:

What makes me scratch my head is, at my most passive, beta-ist wuss (when I wasn't being Godzilla asshole aggressive in the whole P/A 1-2 combo I had going), under no circumstances would I tolerate this crap.  Um, No.  Bye.

But is it fair to say everyone who ever passed through MMSL could say the same? I remember a member who let his wife have an affair when he was going through ED or something. Ultimately I think he left because his marriage fell apart.

Isn't that the narrative to Kenny Rogers' Ruby?

EANx

"Ruby" is of a man who was paralyzed in combat and his wife starts running around on him. Big difference from someone who runs around on their spouse "just because".

I never countenance running around but look at the medical first then everything else afterward.