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Chasing Her O =Wow!
fordsvt
Canada Eh!Silver Member Posts: 2,300
Since joining the Forum here and reading other Blogs; I've learned much about what makes a female tick. I only wish I knew this info when I was 21-not 43.
Sex with my wife and I had gone stale about 10 years ago. I didn't know why, how to fix it or even what the issue was. She had lost attraction and I guess I did as well. So we plodded on in life. Then hit the wall 2 years ago-almost split.
Then, I did much soul searching-what was I doing wrong? Why was sex poor, non-existent, emotionless...etc...
After running my Map, making huge changes, reading sites and blogs about females and sex....I learned how to get her off in multiply ways. In the past six-eight months she has O's, at times very large and long too. Then guess what?-sex was more on the table. She has an O every time now...Every single time...sometimes 2. I just got my first BJTC last week in a decade. I t was a killer BJ-unreal. The best in ten plus years- After her O. She becomes unhinged or even frantic after her O. We then have some serious sex. We are using lubes, coconut oils vibrating cock rings and a vibrator right now so far. We'll see if this expands to more. For now I'm going to keep the sex rolling. Strong initiations, pushing boundaries, new positions, new toys, and whatever else I can push into the bedroom. All this from ensuring she Orgasms when we have sex...and she does. I love watching it unfold. It's like she's being electrouted!! It is so erotic now more than every before. All from being more dominant in the bedroom and a better leader in the relationship.
Does any other men here see this too.? After her O-It's on!!
Map On
Sex with my wife and I had gone stale about 10 years ago. I didn't know why, how to fix it or even what the issue was. She had lost attraction and I guess I did as well. So we plodded on in life. Then hit the wall 2 years ago-almost split.
Then, I did much soul searching-what was I doing wrong? Why was sex poor, non-existent, emotionless...etc...
After running my Map, making huge changes, reading sites and blogs about females and sex....I learned how to get her off in multiply ways. In the past six-eight months she has O's, at times very large and long too. Then guess what?-sex was more on the table. She has an O every time now...Every single time...sometimes 2. I just got my first BJTC last week in a decade. I t was a killer BJ-unreal. The best in ten plus years- After her O. She becomes unhinged or even frantic after her O. We then have some serious sex. We are using lubes, coconut oils vibrating cock rings and a vibrator right now so far. We'll see if this expands to more. For now I'm going to keep the sex rolling. Strong initiations, pushing boundaries, new positions, new toys, and whatever else I can push into the bedroom. All this from ensuring she Orgasms when we have sex...and she does. I love watching it unfold. It's like she's being electrouted!! It is so erotic now more than every before. All from being more dominant in the bedroom and a better leader in the relationship.
Does any other men here see this too.? After her O-It's on!!
Map On
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Those Who Dare......Win. "What gives you fear today...Gives you Strength tomorrow.."
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Be mindful , there may come a time (see what I did there) she does not want one. Thats cool too.
Ba Bam.
Fate favors the prepared.
So did the change come from a "new frame" you created with MAP, or did you find cool ways to give your W more sexual satisfaction? That's something I think we'd all like to hear.....
"Do more of what you love."
Stories like that make this journey even more fun.... It just keeps getting better.
Put back on course via a 'One Hour Call' with Athol. Seriously worth 10 times the cost, but don't tell him that....
“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” - Victor Frankl
Yes id say the same. It's the changes in me that's made a major difference in my life.
Being more alpha more assertive.
Showing leadership being Captain
pushing boundaries.
Not playing with the Hamster.
Also just being a positive person and more fun to be around. I enjoy life so much now. Everyday I want to take on the world.
My next tattoo will say Carpe Diem. Just have to design and figure out where I want it
Into Phase 3..
Those Who Dare......Win. "What gives you fear today...Gives you Strength tomorrow.."Last night, we had a wedding. I Was AMOG all night. Even talking to some of the young man about the red pill, and when one asked my wife she agreed.
We leave the bar after wedding at 12:30 -- The party is still going but my wife announces to friends that she has to go home because her husband is horny (grinning while she says it )
We get back and I take charge. With her just wearing pearls I push her to knees for long BJ . She comes up is so hot kissing me that I know it's on. I bend her over bed and I'm banging her doggy style while pouring lube over her asshole .
Channeling the boundaries thread, I am tend to massage it and maybe stick a finger in. But she's so worked up and so am I I go for the full anal sex .
She comes like crazy and so do I. Never, ever, ever with that it happened a year ago. In fact it's only the second time in our marriage.
I gave her another hot oil massage Friday night. Very deep tissue style. She said it felt better than some of the professional ones she's had.
So then onto business. I did some reading about massaging the pubic bone last week. So I was very ready to try this. Lots of oil and play and my two end fingers inside her. Then used my thumb index finger and palm to work her clit and pubic bone area. Well l was blown away by her orgasms. Unreal. After she caught her breath " ok where the fuck did you learn that move".
My secret I stated. Then I started move foreplay and working her.
When they are engaged craving and wanting sex, everything else falls into place easily. Nice job with your wife too man. She's right into what you're doing for her as well. :-)
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Those Who Dare......Win. "What gives you fear today...Gives you Strength tomorrow.."inquiring minds want to learn from our bros!
Spiceupsex.com and Gariellemoore.com
Some good info on there. It's helped me out greatly to being better in bed. I can get her off every time now. It's been very enlightening and helpful.
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Those Who Dare......Win. "What gives you fear today...Gives you Strength tomorrow.."Also Spicesexup.com.
Sorry. Somewhat dyslexic today. Duh..!!' :-)
Into Phase 3..
Those Who Dare......Win. "What gives you fear today...Gives you Strength tomorrow.."Put back on course via a 'One Hour Call' with Athol. Seriously worth 10 times the cost, but don't tell him that....
“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” - Victor Frankl
All i I know is what I've read has been magic. She gets off every single time. She loves the coconut oil too.
Into Phase 3..
Those Who Dare......Win. "What gives you fear today...Gives you Strength tomorrow.."Put back on course via a 'One Hour Call' with Athol. Seriously worth 10 times the cost, but don't tell him that....
“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” - Victor Frankl
Much of it is mental as well as Imursion and focus for her. Also focus from me and how I touch her. I've been very focused on her O and getting her there every time. She can sense that and it puts her in that right space.
Into Phase 3..
Those Who Dare......Win. "What gives you fear today...Gives you Strength tomorrow.."