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There's been a weird bug we've had strike periodically where a comment from a long time member is "held in moderation." Except we don't hold comments in moderation and the mods can see nothing in the moderation holding cell.
What is actually happening is members who didn't verify their email address when first getting a membership, occasionally get flagged as spam. Most likely if linking off the forum in their comment. So the comments don't go to moderation, they go to the spam filter.
If this happens to you, leave a comment below or message @Athol_Kay, @Jen_Kay or @Serenity. The comment can now be fished out of the spam filter and the member verified and it shouldn't happen again to that member.
As an aside, the spam the forum faces is completely insane at this point. We're getting 100-120 spam memberships a day now getting caught in the filters.
One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
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M.A.P. - http://marriedmansexlife.vanillaforums.com/discussion/13574/pen-and-swords-map
Yeah I found a comment of yours on about page 13 of the spam filter. I verified your email address, which apparently fishes everything out of the spam filter rather than just that one comment.
Thanks!
One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
This morning we're getting a spam membership request every 6 minutes going into the spam filters. I shit you not.
One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
We all appreciate the time and effort you put in on the forum!
post 500. Woot woot!
We're a layer after the captcha at this point, as now new members need to write a reason they want to join the forum in a text box.
We're literally catching 100-120 bots a day writing something in the text box to say why they want to join the forum.
You can't join the forum anymore without a manual approval from me, Jen or Rebecca.
One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
Free is seldom the best price when you have something of high value to offer. Anyone not willing to spend $1 is not in enough pain to listen to our help anyway.
Unfortunately Vanilla doesn't have a paid membership option.
One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
Or maybe just the current sweet spot in the pain/simplicity space.
Remember to play!
Do the right thing, whether anyone is watching or not.
Be married, until you are not.
Email address: angeline.greenwood@att.net
Click the < / > (without spaces) icon in the comment toolbar, scroll to the very end of the quote, and start typing your comment. As long as you have at least one character typed, you can click the same icon to go back to the regular view of your comment.
What this does: The < / > command puts you in html mode, where you see the codes that generate formatting. Scrolling to the bottom gets you past all the formatting codes, so whatever you type is outside them. And once you're past all the codes, everything is plain text again, so you can go back to the normal view.
Enneagram 5w4. I'm researching what that means, before designing t-shirt art about it.
"I feel no shame in making lavish use of the strongest muscles, namely male ones (but my own strongest muscle is dedicated to the service of men - noblesse oblige). I don't begrudge men one whit of their natural advantages as long as they respect mine. I am not an unhappy pseudomale; I am female and like it that way." RAH
It added them to my repaired html after I fid the above steps.
Remember to play!
Do the right thing, whether anyone is watching or not.
Be married, until you are not.
Email address: angeline.greenwood@att.net
Got it. Thanks.
One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
How will you live well today?
It likely went to spam because of multiple external links in the comment.
One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet