Working on getting back into the dating pool.

Remus

jzoom said:

Interesting.  We did leave it as she would let me know when she isn't sick anymore so that we can coordinate a time to go out.  I had already decided to leave it that way, that if she was serious she would get in contact with me and if not then I wasn't reaching out further.

Good practice I guess and just learn from it.

In general I'd say avoid situations where women can play big-fish, small-pond.  As someone who went to an engineering school, believe me it can end up just being an ego boosting exercise for them (I'm not picking on women, men can be guilty of this too). 

HildaCorners

You were also pulling out the sexual banter way too soon.

She says she knows and she was joking but her sense of humor must be dry.  I reply, "then we have to work on getting you wet".

From a guy you aren't sure you want to have a first date with, this is 100% creepy, and probably made her decide she wants nothing to do with you.