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Wife found porn searches on my phone wants Divorce
sparkside1
UkSilver Member Posts: 14
Hi all.
Things have been improving since my wife last wanted out. We went to Lapland for Christmas and had a great time. My relationship with my wife was improving. We even had sex last week. Then on coming home she borrowed my phone as her battery had died and found google suggestions for porn I was looking for. From latinas to Gramps and teens. She went crazy and demanded I leave the house and she wants a divorce saying she doesn't love me and I am a sick pervert.I refused to leave so am sleeping in spare room but she is desperate to kick me out. She screams at me, threatens to not let me see the kids. Just when things looked up She drops me. I have been referred to counselling by the doctor today for porn addiction and am willing to do whatever it takes but can she be turned? She so angry and adamant I don't know what to do. I can't leave the house as I could loose money if it was sold and have nowhere to go. Any advice here?
Things have been improving since my wife last wanted out. We went to Lapland for Christmas and had a great time. My relationship with my wife was improving. We even had sex last week. Then on coming home she borrowed my phone as her battery had died and found google suggestions for porn I was looking for. From latinas to Gramps and teens. She went crazy and demanded I leave the house and she wants a divorce saying she doesn't love me and I am a sick pervert.I refused to leave so am sleeping in spare room but she is desperate to kick me out. She screams at me, threatens to not let me see the kids. Just when things looked up She drops me. I have been referred to counselling by the doctor today for porn addiction and am willing to do whatever it takes but can she be turned? She so angry and adamant I don't know what to do. I can't leave the house as I could loose money if it was sold and have nowhere to go. Any advice here?
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I just had a look back through your posts. You blast in here when things reach breaking point and get lots of support and advice, then disappear until the next crisis. Do you want to continue to lurch from one crisis to the next, or are you prepared to do the hard work to make yourself a better man? Have you completed a full triage and the self examination it requires? Have you prepared and started your MAP?
Porn can be toxic to relationships and you need to get this under control. One. Day. At. A. Time. Here's a good thread to get you started:
http://marriedmansexlife.vanillacommunities.com/discussion/13192/90-day-porn-detox/p1