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Now, if you made it through all of that, I have a question/need some advice. Last week for Steak & BJ day, the actual BJ took about 20 minutes. There was foreplay, and teasing leading up to the start, but when she actually started the BJ, it was about 20 minutes until the TC. For my birthday, it was almost 40 minutes until the TC part.I had previously mentioned her being able to finish one in 5-10 minutes before, and that being a repeatable experience. I think a big issue for my wife is the time i takes to reach TC. Let me be clear, she gives a great BJ. I'm in heaven almost 100% of the time. In the past, she has not taken even the slightest bit of feedback (beyond my indications of pleasure, etc. during the act) well at all. So any suggestions to leading her to working on her technique/trying new things, learning etc. to hopefully get to a consistent quick finish?Or am I just one of those guys who is going to take 30 minutes most of the time?
If you just went no FAP that could be the reason the last BJ took a while. It takes a while for your brain to reset, and it does make things tougher for a while.
I've never minded giving a BJTC, but one of my 127 former husbands put me off them.One of his most common swears was "You cocksucker!" He wouldn't say this in the hearing of "You", but I would hear my then husband say it frequently and picked up that he thought sucking cock was an awful thing for someone to do.I did confront him on this, and he stopped using that swear ... but by then the damage was done.Size and taste are big deterrents to many women. Wash a cucumber and try deep throating it; you'll understand the size issue. And if you masturbate, taste your own semen. As they say "it's an acquired taste."