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And here's the series I was working on shortly before I almost kicked the bucket from a heart attack last month.
It's 36 short videos, coming to just under four hours of total video. You can watch the first few videos for free on Vimeo.
One of the things that is clearly noticeable by everyone coming to the forum, is that we have all at some point run into the problem of weak personal boundaries and having someone run over the top of us and take advantage of the situation.
Or put another way, we played the Nice Card and they played the Mean Card. Repeat that cycle a few times and relationships can quickly stop being fun.
This series is about learning a simple, clear tool that cuts through the uncertainty of whether or not someone is trying to take advantage of you, and gives you an equally straightforward solution as to what to do about it.
You'll learn how to spot and handle incoming Mean Cards in real time, and learn how to encourage people to play more Nice Cards in your direction. All without needing to become unpleasant yourself.
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Vimeo is the retailer and hosting the videos. You will need to have a Vimeo membership to buy (or rent) the videos. Vimeo membership is free and signing up is a snap. The Vimeo FAQ for buying is at https://vimeo.com/help/faq/watching-videos/vimeo-on-demand-purchases.
Please Leave a Comment on the Vimeo Pages
As a final request, please leave comments on the Vimeo sales pages themselves. There's been some very positive comments about the videos on the forum, but they would be a huge benefit if you can also say something on the Vimeo sales page.
And thank you to everyone who has been so supportive as we've pushed this project ahead.
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"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
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One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
The shorter ones are easier to script and shoot as well.
I'm moving toward a model of "The name of the product is the name of the tool" + "The product is about the tool and not much else".
If you're into spooky moments, the very last video in the series was almost my final message to the world.
One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
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I've often wondered why I always err on the side of being too nice in my personal relationships per default. Common explanations revolve around having had too demanding parents or even worse, which couldn't be farther from the truth. Your explanation makes so much sense! Thank you for your insight.
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We discovered a titling error in the first eight episodes shortly after release, which is why we pulled it for several hours.
Because you purchased it before we figured out the error, you can see in your playlist both the original incorrect episodes, and the updated ones. Vimeo's policy is that once you buy a video, you get to keep it no matter what happens.
I've gone back and updated the wrong titles to be called "Removed - [title]" so they are less confusing to skip.
I believe there's a total of two or three people that bought the videos before we caught the error. I'm so sorry for the confusion.
People buying it after the title updating will simply see the correct episodes/titles.
One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
Also, I'd gladly buy the .mp3 version for the same price...available on Amazon??? You're always about 25 steps ahead of my marketing brain, but I thought I'd put the idea out there, and beg. Streaming isn't so hot at my house at the moment.
I was very concerned to hear about the heart attack. Very glad to hear that you're OK. Be well, my best to you Athol.
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"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
We just bought the series yesterday and have watched the first five already. Really thought-provoking. Loving them so far. We are planning on watching a few each night as couple time.
Thank you Athol.
Glad to hear you are on the road to recovery now.
I went looking for my dreams outside of myself and discovered, it's not what the world holds for you, it's what you bring to it.
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Thank you! And a nice bump for @Serenity as a coach as well.One Hour Call 12-Week Guided MAP
"The turnaround is tremendous. And I'm lifting weights, eating better, and tackling projects. I have all this great energy without a vampire sucking my life force. He's a lot stronger standing on his own two feet, as well." - Scarlet
That said, I like the shorter videos much better.
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