Starting my map

mrnicks

AHHHHHHH, why can't I finish my map?  I'm too busy working, taking care of kids, building custom furniture and oh yeah having tons of sex.  I'm actually sore!  wtf, I need to work on my map.  My wife needs a map also!  Ever since I put the captains hat back on and handled more children stuff sexual encounters are through the roof.  I mean like kneeling in front of me type BJ's.  Life is really good this summer so far. 

CartB4Horse

Amazing success here.  You start this thread on June 8th and by the 21st you're getting laid like tile.....

beribboned

You and your wife might enjoy taking a free enneagram personality test to try to understand each other better. You sound like a type 7. My husband is a type 7 so my congratulations and sympathy to your wife. Your jail time even if very brief probably shook up her trust in you. 

mrnicks

CartB4Horse said:

Amazing success here.  You start this thread on June 8th and by the 21st you're getting laid like tile.....

Yeah, I just put forth a lot of effort.  And It helps that I know my wife really well.  We weren't in really bad shape.  She was just in misery at her job and overwhelmed with the kids.  I stepped in and slapped on my captains hat and everything kind of fell in place.  And it's not all about sex.  I know that after having a ton of it your D*%# hurts and you're both actually kind of tired.  But, at night even if we don't have sex we lay with each other and enjoy that.  

I think you just just have to maintain confidence hit every obstacle head on and just live life.  I'm very guilty of what I call pit bull mode.  I get locked on to home projects and work and don't see anything happening around me.  I'm working on getting that in control.

mrnicks

beribboned said:

You and your wife might enjoy taking a free enneagram personality test to try to understand each other better. You sound like a type 7. My husband is a type 7 so my congratulations and sympathy to your wife. Your jail time even if very brief probably shook up her trust in you. 

I'll check it, type 7 huh?  Jail time was extremely brief and I was very young and so was She.  Young men are very prone to do very stupid things.   Since then I have complete control, am a loving husband and father and have a good career.  

mrnicks

beribboned said:

You and your wife might enjoy taking a free enneagram personality test to try to understand each other better. You sound like a type 7. My husband is a type 7 so my congratulations and sympathy to your wife. Your jail time even if very brief probably shook up her trust in you. 

I took the test @74% I'm type 1 Orderliness    Or what I call Pit Bull mode.    
I actually find this outcome to be very accurate.  I am a engineer.  

Can't wait to show my wife, I guarantee she'll laugh and agree.  I'm also going to have her take it.   

Thanks for bringing this up.  This was part of my problem, I get too focused and don't help her.  But, I'm helping now and it's getting a lot better.  Don't worry I'm still a bad boy at heart.  I just bring that out in the bedroom. 
                      

Enneagram Test Results Type 1 Orderliness |||||||||||||||||| 74% Type 2 Helpfulness |||||||||||| 50% Type 3 Image Focus |||||| 30% Type 4 Individualism |||||||||||||||| 62% Type 5 Intellectualism |||||||||||||||| 70% Type 6 Security Focus |||||||||||||| 54% Type 7 Adventurousness |||||||||||| 50% Type 8 Aggressiveness |||||||||||||||| 62% Type 9 Calmness |||||||||||||||| 62% Your main type is 1 Your variant is self pres

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mrnicks

Turns out She is Type 6 with a close second of Type 1.    

mrnicks

Wife got a new job.  Things are pretty good.