Met a woman, went out once, had a blast, she did, too.
She's going out with a gf tomorrow to a comedy show, and there's dancing after. Her friend will leave after the comedy show and she asked me to meet her to dance.
First time in forever that I'm going dancing with a woman. I go to a lot of singles dances and meet women there, but this is the first time I'm going to a dance with a woman as a couple and it's at a club, not a singles dance.
She's hot. Seriously hot. Says she's wearing a mini tomorrow. I'm expecting other guys to come up and ask her to dance. How do I handle it?
Frankly, my plan is to keep her on the floor as much as I can myself, simply because I like dancing and I'm sure I'll like dancing with her. But I waver between mate-guarding (I know, I just met her) or letting her decide if she wants to dance with someone else. One seems possessive asshole at this point and the other seems beta chump (sure, take my woman).
The man who gives his woman everything ends up with nothing. Not even the woman.
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That said, not everyone believes this way. When in doubt, use your words. Ask her in a cocky funny pseudo-middle school way, "So is this like a date date?" If she says no, there's your answer. If she says yes, put your arm around her and growl in her ear, "That means you're only allowed to dance with me."
And then, of course, you can't ask other women to dance either.
Not a huge crowd but she was very attentive and into me. She knows the bouncers and some of the wait-staff and introduced me to them (she goes there about once a month) but wasn't buzzing/chatty with anyone else.
It ended very well. I cooked her breakfast while she walked her dog this morning.
Also passed the "would you shave your beard if I asked you" fitness test.
@Reborn, that was not an issue.
I've never done it but always like to try something new. She said loser shaves their beard. Since she doesn't have one, I said she needs to try AS.
Mistake? Will I take an alpha hit if I lose (can't really gauge my odds)?
I'm not worried about losing, just wondering if it will be a DLV if I do.
Remember to play!
Do the right thing, whether anyone is watching or not.
Be married, until you are not.
Email address: angeline.greenwood@att.net
Remember to play!
Do the right thing, whether anyone is watching or not.
Be married, until you are not.
Email address: angeline.greenwood@att.net
And we've discussed the spanking for misbehaviours. She's on board.
Thanks, sounds like I'm checking the right boxes.
Remember to play!
Do the right thing, whether anyone is watching or not.
Be married, until you are not.
Email address: angeline.greenwood@att.net
So if a guy asks her and she says yes I don't worry about it. I'm typically one of the best dancers in there so odds are he's going to look bad anyway.
@LadyOrTheTyger she told me she tried AS once in her 20's and hadn't since.