Not sure if this was an IOI

Caveman

Threw a party at my house recently and invited some neighbors and friends. After the alcohol started to do it's job one of the wives began to complain about her hubby during a discussion. Through her complaints it was clear she was not satisfied with him in the bedroom and at one point she even in front of us complained about the (lack there of ) size of his dick. Anyway she asked me to stand up next to him and then scolded her hubby saying why can't you dress like Caveman? She had me turn around and she checked out my pants and shirt and asked where I bought the jeans.  When she was done she again said she disapproved of his style of dress. Just wondering if yall would consider this as an IOI?

r9stone

More like a drunk DLV on her part. While her husband probably has a lot of work to do to get to awesomeville one should NEVER mock their spouse in front of others like that.

Light-hearted teasing is one thing (often follow this with RC, ask me how I know!) but making fun of the size of his penis is just pathetic on her part.

Would you be able to get the guy a copy of The Primer?

quanyin

What @r9stone said. Sounds like she was being a disrespectful bitch who subjected her husband to a moment of public humiliation. That is never acceptable behavior, don't care if her husband's parts are 1" short or 10" long.

Angeline

It's also perfectly acceptable to say right out, "Oh hell no, I don't want to participate in this" as soon as you figure out what is going on. 

Tennee

Yeah, its a very...uncomfortable IOI.  I've been complemented on dress before by one of W's friends, and she expressed she wished I'd teach her H how to dress.   I took that one.  It didn't come with penile size debasing however.

Curious - what did the dude do during a public berating?  Sit there and take it?  Look sheepishly at his feet?  Good grief.

If this is me, I'd avoid this couple henceforth.  Its either a trainwreck waiting to happen or they're into the whole Cuckold thing.   Either way, I don't need friends like this...

Caveman

Yeah it was very uncomfortable when she was using me as a model. And the penis put down was not at the same time as the clothing comment it was either earlier or later (I don't remember but I had been drinking a little). As far as her hubby he tried to defend himself but didn't say a whole lot.

OneEyedDrunk

Caveman said:

Threw a party at my house recently and invited some neighbors and friends. After the alcohol started to do it's job one of the wives began to complain about her hubby during a discussion. Through her complaints it was clear she was not satisfied with him in the bedroom and at one point she even in front of us complained about the (lack there of ) size of his dick. Anyway she asked me to stand up next to him and then scolded her hubby saying why can't you dress like Caveman? She had me turn around and she checked out my pants and shirt and asked where I bought the jeans.  When she was done she again said she disapproved of his style of dress. Just wondering if yall would consider this as an IOI?

I would definitely consider that an IOI. I had that happen once myself in front of my wife. I would consider pulling him aside some time, and share the primer with him if he's interested. Sounds like his wife needs a good fucking, and he needs to give it to her. 

Caveman

OneEyedDrunk said:

Caveman said:

Threw a party at my house recently and invited some neighbors and friends. After the alcohol started to do it's job one of the wives began to complain about her hubby during a discussion. Through her complaints it was clear she was not satisfied with him in the bedroom and at one point she even in front of us complained about the (lack there of ) size of his dick. Anyway she asked me to stand up next to him and then scolded her hubby saying why can't you dress like Caveman? She had me turn around and she checked out my pants and shirt and asked where I bought the jeans.  When she was done she again said she disapproved of his style of dress. Just wondering if yall would consider this as an IOI?

"...Sounds like his wife needs a good fucking, and he needs to give it to her."
That's exactly the conclusion I got from listening to her and CW agreed with me too.

Tennee

Caveman said:

"...Sounds like his wife needs a good fucking, and he needs to give it to her."
That's exactly the conclusion I got from listening to her and CW agreed with me too. 

The problem here is, if attraction level is in the toilet - as is amply demonstrated by her shitty  behavior and utter lack of respect - there will be no fucking, and any Pity Lay will not be perceived  as 'good' by her, even if he's hung like a porn star  This was sheer contempt, not just some 'bratty' play/test stuff. He is clearly, as of this moment, not the man who could rise to the occasion of  giving her a 'good fucking', and it has zero to do with mechanics.

Eta:  by sitting there and taking this, while mounting a mewling half-assed defense, he dug himself a little deeper in the hole.

Want to take on a project?  If no, stay away.  

Rorschach

Tennee said:

Caveman said:

"...Sounds like his wife needs a good fucking, and he needs to give it to her."
That's exactly the conclusion I got from listening to her and CW agreed with me too. 

The problem here is, if attraction level is in the toilet - as is amply demonstrated by her shitty  behavior and utter lack of respect - there will be no fucking, and any Pity Lay will not be perceived  as 'good' by her, even if he's hung like a porn star  This was sheer contempt, not just some 'bratty' play/test stuff. He is clearly, as of this moment, not the man who could rise to the occasion of  giving her a 'good fucking', and it has zero to do with mechanics.

Eta:  by sitting there and taking this, while mounting a mewling half-assed defense, he dug himself a little deeper in the hole.

Want to take on a project?  If no, stay away.  

I'd say this is well beyond attraction being in the toilet. This is not ILYBINILWY. This is utter, open, full blown contempt. This is in the realm of That Which Is Not Done in a marriage. And he seems to have stood there and taken it like a chump. Stay away.

Emily

I agree that this was a thing not to be done- he could map himself into alpha man of the universe but his dick will never change. He will always be able to hear that in his head. 

CartB4Horse

Emily said:

I agree that this was a thing not to be done- he could map himself into alpha man of the universe but his dick will never change. He will always be able to hear that in his head. 

Maybe his next wife would be smaller as well as being +2 SR over his Ex.

At least he'd have a small dick and options!

SamIam2

Hey everyone... not sure if this is an IOI... still trying to figure this out..

So, I walked into a bank branch, and the receptionist (cute, late 20s) gave me a big smile, said hello, and then pulled her cardigan sweater over a little... almost to cover her chest a little...  I thought nothing of it.. but

I walk up to the bank teller, and almost the same thing happened... cute girl, maybe late 20s also.. but she was almost overly friendly and seemed to do the same thing, instinctively, pull her own cardigan over a little to cover up...

Now, I'm an almost 40 year-old man, but I have always been considered young looking (but only shave a couple of years off...not ten).  And, that day, I did have a great outfit on, and I probably was displaying some High Value..

Still, I never would have thought that those reactions could be IOIs.... but getting into this MAP and MMSL stuff, I've become a little more aware, and that fact that both young women seemed to react in the same way to me... makes me think (or at least want to believe) that those were "I'm attracted to you signs"...

Tell me I'm way over thinking this..  (or boost my ego :-) 

Caveman

Take it for what it is. Us over 40 dudes have to take what we can get. Sounds like an IOI to me.

fordsvt

@Tennee is correct.   I'd avoid this couple. How embarrassing for that guy. 
Tell your wife to stay away from that wife. Wow.  You don't want her being a friend to you're wife buddy.  That's self destructive behaviour and DLV. Pass on that one.