At another impasse. So we've been having sex almost daily, at night before going to sleep and early in the morning before getting up. Then the other day he complains that I haven't been coming. I've explained to him that as a woman I can't have an orgasm every time. Even showed him Athol's article. That he shouldn't pressure me. I admit I've starfished a lot of the time since they're quickies and I'm not feeling it.
So now he's complaining again and feeling insecure. We even had a big fight about it, with him accusing and me agreeing that I hate sex.
Now we're at a place where we're being cordial but keeping our distance. I've approached him to try to thaw the ice, but understandably he's like what do you want me to do after you've told me you hate sex.
So although I like not being bothered for sex so much, but I miss the intimacy and companionship.
What to do?...