I guess this should go here...
I've been thinking of ways to spice up the old "date night." One of the ideas I came up with involves role playing scenarios/games. This is different from the usual bedroom role-playing in that you're in the role for the entire date/period leading up to the date. If someone "breaks character" there will be an appropriate punishment. Here are a few I thought of:
- Blind Date - This one is kind of obvious. We both make up a backstory (where we are single). I disappear from home for the day (I would make arrangements for my daughter as well) and we meet at a night spot for our first date. This may or may not result in sex. Depends how well it goes. It would be interesting to carry it over to additional dates too.
- Weary Traveler Rendezvous/Bar Pickup - I'm traveling for business (or out with the guys, pretty similar either way). She's out with the girls. My job is to pick her up and bring her back to my hotel room. Backstory can be completely fictional or somewhat truth-based. This would be tough to pull off because her friends would have to be in on it (even tougher if mine were involved). Might be too weird for them as they are all pretty straight-laced and uptight.
- The Affair - This one is more involved. Basically we both create alternate versions of ourselves that are looking for an affair. The initial contact can come from facebook via PM (I would use a dummy account; she would use her real one) or from a dating site (maybe dangerous but I don't think so). We develop an EA which escalates to a PA, with each other. This can last as long as either of us want it to.
Has anyone ever done anything like this? Any good ideas/scenarios/tips/comments? I have not broached this subject with my wife, but I think she would at least be up for the first one. If we can pull that one off, more could follow.