I guess I had fortune on my side. Because it was my birthday, she did an excellent steak meal, picked a great wine, cooked an amazing desert (and two versions of it just to see which is better) plus a cheese board (for the first time in our entire relationship). In fact, this is the first time she's done a meal like this wearing a super-sexy dress and candles in our relationship, certainly the last few years.
Oh, and the sex was amazing. She made a point to remind me this morning
Fortunately I have a lot of friends coming out for a meal tonight so I should come across as AMOG among them, and then she's treating me to a full day of events tomorrow... I don't want her to lead everything because I should be captain, but I guess it will be fun to go along for the ride this time. Thoughts on that?
When shes working hard to give you a good time, smile a lot. Act like you're on top of the world because you are.
Good point, but what about acting aloof? When should I do one or the other! Today I'm working in the kitchen while she bakes ANOTHER cake behind me, and keeps trying to talk (which I take as a shit test because I'm genuinely busy working, though I'm not mean and don't totally ignore her). We have a bit of fun but I don't seek attention from her. Should I be more real with myself? I'm feeling very loved up again, but as @athol_kay says in my 911 thread, my head is buried in the sand right now.
she hadn't actually done anything wrong Yes, she did.
She had a covert "rape contract." Someone recently posted a comedian monologue about how absurd it was that his date expected him to force her after she had refused consent.
she hadn't actually done anything wrong Yes, she did.
She had a covert "rape contract." Someone recently posted a comedian monologue about how absurd it was that his date expected him to force her after she had refused consent.
Nah, there was an overt contract here, we have a safe word which is our hard no and she uses it on occasion. I just got butthurt because I didn't want to play that game that night. Soft no's are easy to deal with for me because of this overt contract. I handled it badly.
I agree the comedian example is absurd, but it doesn't apply here.
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Yes, she did.
She had a covert "rape contract." Someone recently posted a comedian monologue about how absurd it was that his date expected him to force her after she had refused consent.