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  • leoslayerleoslayer NCSilver Member Posts: 1,920
    She is back on the clock. She has 9 mths to get things where I want them or I walk May1
  • pocketacespocketaces MassachusettsSilver Member Posts: 1,019
    edited September 2013
    I salute you, mr. 9 months or I walk.

    However, you have to speak your expectations.
    PhoenixDownBetaGeekDaveBowman446
  • WildflowerWildflower USASilver Member Posts: 277
    Curious, how did you know she had masturbated?



    redheaded_womanKillaHertz
  • leoslayerleoslayer NCSilver Member Posts: 1,920
    Wildflower said:

    Curious, how did you know she had masturbated?




    Cause the only phone that works in the house is hers. I can't get signal so I go to safari and start to type in mmsl and tube 8 moblie and all the porn surfing she did popped up as suggested adrs.

  • WildflowerWildflower USASilver Member Posts: 277
    Ah. Okay. I was going to offer up a possible explanation related to yeast infections/relief. Never mind! 

  • leoslayerleoslayer NCSilver Member Posts: 1,920
    pocketaces said:

    I salute you, mr. 9 months or I walk.

    However, you have to speak your expectations.

    I have and she has. I'm working on her concerns about more beta and better dates. I'm also workin on my MAP but have had some setbacks cause I've been on the road so much this summer which is another sore spot for her.
  • leoslayerleoslayer NCSilver Member Posts: 1,920
    Wildflower said:

    Ah. Okay. I was going to offer up a possible explanation related to yeast infections/relief. Never mind! 

    Last tues we had sex. I went out of town for work got back saturday night. Mouth was killing her took her to ER. Put her on antibiotics that led to yeast a few days later so between the tooth and yeast hanging on from the meds it's been 10 days.

    Right now I'm getting fed up with her.

  • DaveBowmanDaveBowman Member Posts: 5,823
    I'm confused.

    She had a root canal and has a yeast infection, but still gets herself off?

    that's one tough lady.

    What's the play? What the hell do you want? You say you don't want to be around her, so don't be around her. You say you're fed up with her so be fed up with her. You say you're giving her nine months, so I'd clue her in on this timeline of yours.

    I'd OI up and head out.

    Cowboy
  • WildflowerWildflower USASilver Member Posts: 277
    I can see why you'd feel frustrated. Especially if she's not working with you ...  I can see not wanting to do a BJ with a root canal and PIV being out of the question with a yeast infection. But still ... a HJ should be on the table at the very least, I should think. I was going to say that sometimes with yeast infections, orgasms offer some relief from the itchiness (coating the vaginal walls?) and perhaps that's why she engaged. It's not necessarily a sexual thing (more like having a need to blow your nose when you're stuff up). But if she's using pornography ... then ... well ... yeah.  :-<

  • leoslayerleoslayer NCSilver Member Posts: 1,920
    @davebowman something is wrong I don't know what it is. I'm trying to fix the beta but I'm bad at it.

    Why in the hell would I give her the timeline? I'm stuck living with her till May1 I'll give her that long to meet my needs then if she doesn't get there I pull up in a uhaul and move out nice and clean.
  • leoslayerleoslayer NCSilver Member Posts: 1,920
    DaveBowman said:


    leoslayer said:

    @davebowman something is wrong I don't know what it is. I'm trying to fix the beta but I'm bad at it.

    Why in the hell would I give her the timeline? I'm stuck living with her till May1 I'll give her that long to meet my needs then if she doesn't get there I pull up in a uhaul and move out nice and clean.

    Why the hell do you have a timeline then???

    How can you expect her to spontaneously change if you don't hit her with the clue stick and give her a shot at changing?

    This whole situation sounds very passive aggressive man... and I say that as a fan.

    She knows I want to be treated like a piece of meat. She doesn't want to be treated like a piece of meat. After being a stripper most her life and making her money off looks and being sexy she wants to be seen as more than sexy by me because I'm more than just a FWB.

    I agree that I'm more than a FWB but I want to be treated like one.
    I told her I like a minimum of 3x week of good sex.

    She is rather selfish sexually as she controlled the sex all her life.
  • leoslayerleoslayer NCSilver Member Posts: 1,920
    she has had nothing but FWBs the last 7yrs. When she wanted sex she'd call them thus she was in control.

    She doesn't like the lack of control that I bring to the table.
  • PhoenixDownPhoenixDown TejasGold Women Posts: 10,632
    You can't give her an ultimatum if you don't tell her what option B is.

    BetaGeekKillaHertz
  • leoslayerleoslayer NCSilver Member Posts: 1,920
    RedPillWifey said:

    You can't give her an ultimatum if you don't tell her what option B is.

    She knows what option B is. She said maybe we should whore you out some. She mentioned MP might like a piece and the girl that came up and told me she thought I looked like a different TV star the other day.

    I don't know what her issues are. She hasn't said no to sex in months but she hasn't been ripping my clothes off either.

    If I gave her the ultimatum right now she'd probably take it.

    I'm gonna keep working out fix my known areas of structural weakness. Work on the beta stuff and give it one last run.

    She is the least sexual of any woman I've ever been with and I want what I'm used to.
  • PhoenixDownPhoenixDown TejasGold Women Posts: 10,632
    Are you still having an EA with MP?

  • DanGDanG Member Posts: 1,519
    "She knows I want to be treated like a piece of meat. She doesn't want to be treated like a piece of meat. After being a stripper most her life and making her money off looks and being sexy she wants to be seen as more than sexy by me because I'm more than just a FWB." :))


    ???????????? > Ok, all the FOs that want more beta click "agree."

  • leoslayerleoslayer NCSilver Member Posts: 1,920
    RedPillWifey said:

    Are you still having an EA with MP?

    I don't think I am having one. I talk to her maybe once a mth. Haven't seen her since last Jan in person. She texts me a few times a week. I tell K about every contact and told her she can look at me phone if she wants. I'm 100% trans. when it comes to any contact with other women.

    I haven't touched another woman since we officially went exclussive. Hell I dropped the harem when I mistakenly thought we were exclussive.
  • leoslayerleoslayer NCSilver Member Posts: 1,920
    DanG said:

    Re: "Hell I dropped the harem when I mistakenly thought we were exclusive."

    >>>>> THERE's your problem!! I know enough strippers to know that they puke on beta. You went to the beta side. You "wished" that was what she wanted - even if she told you she did. You can't keep and run a Porsche on low octane.

    Not the issue. She calls me a caveman, old school, fifties man.

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