People get angry in relationships, you got in a downward spiral and
were trying to get out of it. Be the best version of yourself here on
out, and good things will happen one way or another.
I would still think about getting new friends, they didn't do you any favors, especially the Fiance.
Is there any chance that there is someone else? I would look for outside influences on her, not necessarily an affair but the Fiance comes to mind.
My wife had an EA, and it was 1 part depression, another part being in with new friends that supported that bullshit. I had to pretty much be ready to destroy my marriage and be a jerk to have her cut contact. That was a year ago. I have worked hard and my marriage is closer to being what it was years ago in the beginning than it has been in years.
Here is something someone taught me while that was going on: A woman can't leave a happy man though usually unless there is someone else to attract her. Work like mad on yourself. Be super attractive guy who has his shit together, mr. cool and fun. I would call to see your son, etc.
Her dad is going to support her 100% regardless, but if you are the best thing out there he will tell her that too.
You are your son's dad, don't let anyone else fill that role regardless.
Do you think she respects you? Respect goes really far with women just about as much as being attractive, if they don't respect you they shit on you. That is why passing a shit test is so important.
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August 2014