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threewishes2016 said: Silly question here -- but I am not technical enough to actually know the answer. When I purchase the videos, can both my husband and I watch them on our individual phones or do we have to download them to a shared compute…
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Just in case there's any confusion, my work isn't some kind of abandoned intellectual property I could allow anyone to build an actively growing website around. I have absolutely no problem with people staying in contact / having a private group /…
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Monkeys_Uncle said: @Angeline said: @MommyHoneyBear's marriage being brought back from the brink Yes. This is the epitome of Athol's philosophy. If there is such a thing as "textbook" MMSL, it is Ron and MHB's story. @Jon and @M…
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WarnPeace said: Is there nothing that can be done to transfer the forum to other interested parties? I understand the sentiment here, but the forum contains an immense amount of personal information. Email and IP addresses for starters.…
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Thanks all for the kind words. It means a lot.
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Zoroaster said: I can't shake the feeling that I've heard the other side of this particular story. Because searching on his email address reveals this is someone who has already been banned before, creates multiple accounts to attempt to…
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LittleNoLove said: I just wish my husband said that I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him!!! I will try the triage. Thanks LittleNoLove said: I just don't love him. Why can't he live without sex? Am I unfair? …
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SignorePillolaRossa said: didnt know that one, Katt - thanks for raising my awareness I knew about Jamaica's LBGT stance, I just didn't want to ruin your ability to enjoy a vacation there. :-) The world is an imperfect place and there…
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So essentially your stance is some kind of variant on; "Sorry kids, Florida went republican so we're canceling the Disneyworld trip."
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dalef said: Do you really hate sex with him? If not, you need to let him know that. That is about the most devastating comment a man could receive. (If you do hate sex with him, divorce him.) On average women need 20 minutes of stimulat…
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So basically he wants so much sex that it pushes you into a place that any further sex just becomes a Red, and then he gets angry at you that you're acting like sex is a Red. The sex itself actually has an influence on Relationship Momentum. You ca…
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As an additional thought, is there some element where she's reacting to an element of you "not knowing who she is" by saying she was a 3w2 instead of a 7w8?
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Just reopen the Enneagram conversation then. Start with the 5 and 7 together stuff. "I thought you were a 3w2 because...." "I can see the 7w8 now because..."
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So... when is she going to ask where you discovered the Enneagram. And in fairness, 7w8 and 3w2 can look fairly similar in a few ways. :-)
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So wild guess here... your son is going to magically end up too sick to attend his own party?
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@Milkman you are likely correct, but you're attempting to communicate using tones of disgust and shaming @Beans into taking action. Which means everyone reacts to your tone, and not your information. Everyone starts becoming defensive because you'r…
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Right now I'm assuming the biggest part of your MAP is simply fighting for your son, plus getting through this entire divorce process. This is unquestionably the biggest Red area in your life right now. To be sure eating right, exercise yada yada …
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Under_Construction said: Thanks @Athol_Kay. Do you see what I mean about this resistance? I mean I know I have nice guy issues but having these types of people present these arguments really prays on my current vulnerabilities Yes I agree tha…
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Under_Construction said: He was looking at it from my son’s angle – saying that in time he wouldn’t care about three nights a fortnight or more, it was about less conflict and a happier me. So if I had more time in the future why strive for it …
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Crashaxe said: Sure enough, the problem has gone away as mysteriously as it appeared, I soaked my other laptop in water to try to clean the forum. No doubt that is what fixed the issue. Strangely, the other laptop just makes wierd buzzing nois…
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I'm not seeing what's causing it @Crashaxe. If you're doing a lot cut and paste from something like Word it can bug out some. Even stuff off another web page can bug out as you lift their HMTL in the cut and paste, and can end up with the Vanilla s…
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SamIam2 said: For example, I regularly corner her when she is at the sink washing some dishes... and she has actually said she doesn't like it when she can't see my approach and feels trapped... nonetheless, I haven't stopped those drive-by c…
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MrsB said: For me, what was upsetting was how many men I know defended him and said it's how ALL men talk. It makes men seem duplicitous. Like, one minute y'all act like perfect gentlemen and the next you're talking about us in the most degradi…
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I'm sure it's happening to more than a few people around the country. I'd call her out on that she's mad at Trump and taking it out on you. It would make about as much sense of being angry at her for anything Hillary has done/said et al. You can a…
