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Ildundra
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- Ildundra
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Thank you @HildaCorners Bought The Married Guy's Guide to Wife. And thank you @Athol_Kay For the forums and everything. The sale made me the decision of buing it now instead of pushing it to infinite future
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Thank you for the discount! Got the Nice Card Mean Card, going to delve into it! How do you people feel; how useful is "The Married Guy's Guide to Wife" to a woman? Read MMSL and working on my MAP, feel like understanding more of the man -side coul…
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Thank you so much for the forum! MMSL is what really started me on my journey of taking answer for my shit myself: I'm still on that journey, and was just today coming back to get Gold and start a MAP-thread. Not going to end it either, even when th…
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I'm not any wiser regarding my issue in the previous post, but, when in doubt, MAP harder! These are my reds in my own words. Some of them are mostly under control, but I want to include them as I feel they should be 99% awesomeness instead of 70%…
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I was on a date yesterday, and had fun, and I think I want to get to know the person better. But, I realised I'm still not over my former boyfriend - and we did split up 1,5 years ago. I always think I am, until something comes up, and I sit home cr…
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My new job as a teacher for 12-year olds is intense and interesting, and taking its drain on me. Happy about the job and happy about my winter holiday right now New things always require energy, but I'm optimistic that I will be able to set up the…
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Monkeys for the next 1,5 weeks (22nd January trough 1st February). 1. Focus on improving in my hobby Spend a lot of focused training time in the computer game (now before my work begins). My goal is to reach as high ranking as possible for the sea…
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Assesment of my previous Monkeys (7th January 2015 to 18th January 2015 Goals): 2. Search for work as a primary school teacher (Money and materials) Success! I didn't get the one I was talking about last time, but that was good as today I was calle…
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Sure @MissMissy! I'm sure you've heard the saying about that we're the average of the five people we spend most time with? Or how old married couples resemble and/or complement each other? Whether you believe in it literally or not, I think all pe…
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Hey! I'm not sure if I'm qualified to advice you, as my dating has mainly been a few long relationships starting as a teenager, but I'm a 22- years old girl so it might apply for you. I'd say get away I'd have a really hard time staying unattache…
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Hey Joanna, great goals! It's been really great to follow your journey, especially as I feel I can relate to so much of it as you're in a very similar (although different) life situation I'm not sure about the formal vs. the informal job market i…
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I'm not yet on the next level of these personality things, I know how they describe me but haven't done the work to know, how it should affect me or how to use it in my life
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@_io You're totally right about the need to stop those kind of comments. My monkey number 3 for these weeks is exactly that, and now that I grow my awareness of that trough the bracelet thing, I notice how much i really do that. My big five test h…
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I am struggling a bit with my "don't complain"- challenge, I'm picking myself from complaining multiple times a day and changing my bracelet from one hand to another. It's clearly a good one for me, as I'm getting more aware about my tendencies. As…
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Hey, thanks @DaddyOh ! Good advice there, though some of it doesn't apply right now as this will only be a job for a month or so. I had the interview, and it went well. I'm not sure yet if I got the job or if I probably-got the job (they're talking…
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7th January 2015 to 18th January 2015 Goals 1. Wake up in the morning and go outside for a walk (Physicality and health) Exercise has been "the" problem for me for ages, so that's the must have in my goals. This sounds manageable and like something …
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Hey @EverAfter , i'm not a man dating after divorce, but wanted to chime in that the lower chance compared to men doesn't equal to only having harrible out of shape men as options. That would be true if age was the only impacting factor, but a big …
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Any ideas on constructive ways to reward myself when I achieve short term or long term goals? I've used to do that with food, and would like to find alternatives that would also help with the extra motivation when needed
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I've got 4 red areas under 5 on my scale of 1-10. Slacking on exercise 1, has been my trouble since forever, I don't stick to the routines I make, and with my 80-hour workweek for the next two months, I'm not realistically going to hit the gym now …
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As I noticed that I've been here for a year, I decided to check how my MAP has progressed during the year. My MAP has been short successes and long periods of close to no improvement. The scale is from 1-10, the first number is how I assessed myself…
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Thanks for your advice! Good that I don't just need to sit and wait if I encounter someone I've now been sugarless for more than two months, from 12th August, and it's working, I'm dropping weight. Now I need to find a new balance out of when and …
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@dalef , I meant that should I stop proposing any kind of meetings or dates to people that I might be interested in as as female? In the internet I've been approached by guys, and then during the conversation I might have proposed a date on day x/p…
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And one thing regarding to multiple orgasms to keep in mind - she might have something to lose from that. At least for me, after the O everything is feeling really great, I'm relaxed and soppy and happy. The second and third can be amazing. But, de…
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Hmm, that's a point. Guess I've just not engaged a lot into the dating -people-purposefully scene, as neither has the friend. As an update, I ended saying goodbye to the guy I mentioned in the post before. The small tingles went away to no tingles…
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Labwork (small blood or something like that) doesn't show anything wrong. Probable causes are the lack of regularity and mental stuff, stress and too much to do. I'm working on making my schedules stable and less exhausting.
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Ah, time for update. Ended up cancelling all the dates (and the maybe-a-date wasn't a date), as I panicked after talking with one of my male friends, who felt that if he was a guy going on a date with me and would hear about me having several ones …
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Winning streak 16 of without sugar! I even baked a chocolate-strawberry-banana cake for two of my friends, and had no problems with not tasting it And my weight has dropped! Have got several weightings of under 68 Think the photographing my meals…
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Why debt? My situation financially is very good, as I've got parents who are willing and able to support me. But I think, as the plan has been, that when I graduate I will have to cut off to be financially independent. Right now …
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Thanks @Purple @Frank_London ! I'll try to do the improvements, especially the regularity to both eating and sleep, and see how it goes Magnesium is one quite probable cause, as as far as my readings some years ago are accurate, it's very common…
