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  • My FIL has hemochromatosis.   I don't have much to offer other than to echo the advice to see a good hematologist, one who has experience dealing with the condition .   GPs and other doctors don't typically know much of anything about it.    Good lu…
  • It's great to hear such an upbeat, positive update from you!    All the best to you and your family in the future.   Take care.  
  • Well, I guess this is goodbye!   Thanks to all of you that offered support when I was unable to share all aspects of my struggles IRL and for all the advice, help, and banter over the last 3 years.   I wish you all the very best in 2017 and beyond. …
  • How soon after meeting did you get engaged?   When do you plan to get married?   
    in Initiative Comment by Katt December 18
  • How long have you known each other?   How did you meet?   Also, you keep taking in terms of the abstinence being due to his religious beliefs; do you not share those beliefs?  
    in Initiative Comment by Katt December 17
  • I see most of you aren't familiar with the Negan storyline in the comics...   
  • Tennee said: The 'Hello' here is not a 'Hey, there! How ya doin?'.  Its HELLO?!?!?!?!?!? after a non-response when someone's arbitrary time-clock for a reply is not satisfied.  Its disrespectful bullshit, and gets treated accordingly.  …
  • I think you're making more of this than you need to.    You didn't specify how long after an original text she starts "hello" ing.    Is it two minutes later or hours?   I think that makes a difference - it's unreasonable for her to expect instantan…
  • SignorePillolaRossa said: didnt know that one, Katt - thanks for raising my awareness The only reason I know about it is that the nearby town where I used to teach at the community college has a fair amount of Jamaican immigrants and I t…
  • How do you reconcile your views with going to Jamaica where laws like this exist?   ETA not trying to be argumentative, just trying to understand. 
  • Pen_and_Sword said: This is a pro-marriage site. The Stay Plan is the Go Plan. This chap hasn't run a formal MAP, read or watched Athol's materials, or done a call with Athol. Even this nice introduction falls short of a proper Triage. Give him…
  • Superblue said:    Question Six – When Did the Sex Go Bad? She's got issues. She's into stuff that I will never get into. She knows this and acknowledges that it stems from childhood issues she needs to overcome. She's working on it.      T…
  • My husband is stapling Christmas lights to the house.   For real.   WTF??!!!
    in Katt MAPping! Comment by Katt November 5
  • @LL80 it is a ton of work.  I tend to have less fun because I work so hard at it.  This Halloween I hired a babysitter for my three year old so I could enjoy myself more.  Still spent too much time stressing about making sure guests were happy.  I'm…
  • I know a little something about the essay portion of the test in question (and how it is scored) - tell your son to focus on really analyzing the source piece, as in breaking down what makes that source piece effective (in whatever way the prompt in…
  • I agree that Glenn's death was not surprising.   I was just kind of hoping they would alter that from the books.    I will also miss Abrahamlet!
  • You are so far in her frame that it's painful to read.   Yes, just move on.  
  • FWIW Nuvaring (like all hormonal BC) *can* cause both decreased sex drive (in part because it prevents ovulation) and vaginal dryness.    I'm not suggesting that is the problem, just that it is a possible factor.
  • I don't think anyone is suggesting you file for divorce anytime soon.   People are suggesting that you are letting your fear of the aftermath of a divorce prevent you from doing anything to change the status quo with your wife.  You can start pushin…
  • Maybe you need to start your experimentations a bit more gradually?   Little changes in the routine so that sex is less formulaic? My husband was (is) my first and only partner (he had prior partners) and it took quite some time for me to get beyon…
  • Do you use lube? What have you tried that's been rejected?   Do you try again or write the whole thing off if she responds unfavorably the first time?
  • Re: the term triage, since that seems to be really eating at you: ETA At my husband's job, the person at the IT help desk who sorts service calls into categories and assigns them priorities and technicians is said to "triage" the calls.   
  • This is the debris pile from *one side* of my house.    It's about 6' high.
    in Katt MAPping! Comment by Katt October 10
  • My neighborhood looks like a war zone. 2 houses on my street have trees in their roofs, and 2 trees are down in the middle of our cul de sac. Many areas within a 15-45 minute drive of my home are badly destroyed.   However, in spite of an enormous l…
    in Katt MAPping! Comment by Katt October 10
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    in Katt MAPping! Comment by Katt October 10
  • We are okay thanks - will update more on my thread!   How about you guys?
    in Sit Rep Comment by Katt October 7
  • If you're standing in the driveway socializing with neighbors during a Category 3 hurricane...you might be a Floridian!
    in Katt MAPping! Comment by Katt October 7
  • For anyone that is the praying type, I'm in one of the FL counties that's expected to get the worst of Matthew, so your prayers would be much appreciated. 
    in Katt MAPping! Comment by Katt October 7
  • Yeah it worries me that you are more worried about the second situation than the first.   With all you know about the importance of married people not isolating with members of the opposite sex, the fact that male-female friendships are perilous, yo…