You really seem to have a lot going for you but you also present with deficits in your self-esteem. This likely impacts who you choose to date and results in lower quality men. In addition, a higher quality man is less likely to continue a relatio…
@Mongrel said:
I received the invite but it takes me to a Google group page that says:
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Like_Water said:
It's also not usually a single event that causes the issue--it's a gradual slide toward a level of comfort with the OSF that undermines the marriage. That's why you have to be vigilant about every interaction with the opposite…
Calvin and Hobbes is my favorite comic strip. Any merchandise (e.g., shirts, caps, car window stickers) are not sanctioned by Waterson. He refused to do that. His quote was something along the lines of "There's no good way to sell yourself out."…
And in my opinion the people at most risk are those who say nooo, nooo, it isn't like that, I don't have any lizard brain, I never feel that, we're just friends...
The people who are most at risk are those who see no need to take any precaution…
@AdamBecker is correct. I check out women all. the. time. I am never obvious or blatant about it. I'm married. I'm not going to give a woman an obvious IOI. I just enjoy looking at an attractive woman. If I were single, I would be obvious abou…
You seem to be looking for outside approval to engage in behavior that is likely to seriously damage your marriage.
Please go read my story in Success Stories. it describes what can happen when inappropriate friendships develop, particularly when…
Q: How do you keep LSU Tigers out of your yard?
A: Put up goal posts.
Q: What is the difference between a litter of puppies and LSU Tigers fans?
A: Eventually puppies grow up and stop whining.
Q: Did you hear that LSU's football t…
@Littlejoe said:
My experience so far is a lot of talk, no action. She doesn't go to the gym with me at all anymore, claiming she can't really do anything because of her back. She claims to be watching what she eats closer and has stopped (fo…
sp333 said:
Truman, I plan on reading the book next week when I will have the time. Sorry I didn't mean to post long questions and such. Just I thought it was helpful to hear from people that have gone thru this and have experience to learn fro…
As I wished her goodnight yesterday, I said "I like your new panties. Could you show them to me on you one day?"
Her reply was, "What panties?"
"The very obviously brand new yellow ones on the clothes line," I replied.
She fumbled around, dodg…
The fact that you texted your wife something so important indicates you are not yet leading your family. A leader, a man who makes women swoon, is not afraid of confrontation or anger.
HappyTrail said:
fredless said:
Nowhere in there is there a comment about how serious the problems in your marriage are. Nowhere in there is there a concern raised that you've only had sex with your wife twice this year. I…
HappyTrail said:
fredless I'm gonna nickname you Captain Obvious (ha ha) Yes there's problems. I've had calls with Brian C and Athol already, but admittedly it has been a while. It's on the radar but I'm working another plan first.
Wife's feel…
MiddleMan said:
Tennee said:
^ Don't worry so much about the final destination and instead enjoy the ride.
Ok. The thing is, I'm not sure where I'm going.
Do you have to have a firm plan/destination right now? Why is t…
HappyTrail said:
@Husband3point0 Thank you for rephrasing and reminding me of these concepts!
Different personality types respond to things differently. My W is one who speaks before she thinks and is quick to feel threatened and be highly de…