I'm so excited for your fresh start. You and Jen deserve so much happiness and love. Thank you for everything you have done for me and my marriage. You saved our marriage.
I have a perspective that may be useful to you.
I am divorced and had several custody battles with my ex. After our first custody clash, the judgement gave me less time than I wanted, and my ex more time than I would have preferred. After a few we…
The situation you are in is called hostile dependency. Essentially it means your wife is dependent upon you because she cannot function on her own, so she resents being obligated to you. She understands you don't have a relationship of equals. She i…
You're right, Roses. I should have read more carefully. I maintain my assertion that your kids could attend public school and still have time for additional chores.
Your husband treats you with overt disrespect. He is neglectful of your needs and …
Going to public school absolutely does NOT make it impossible for kids to do chores.
My kids both attend public school, have homework most days, and still are required to do many chores.
People generally live up to your expectations of them.
Y…
You certainly do have a lot on your plate! It sounds incredibly stressful.
I think a good medium- to long-term MAP goal is to get yourself to a position where you can put your foot down to your husband and insist he start acting right, including g…
Oh, me! Pick me!
1. Keep wearing your night guard!
2. Ask your dentist/MD for a Rx for Flexeril. Taking a muscle relaxant for a few nights can sometimes reset that clenching or grinding tendency.
3. Do you take any antidepressant, antianxiety, ant…
SignorePillolaRossa said:
You've handled worse than this.
You've got this, captain.
Onward to increased awesomeness.
... and peace
Onward to awesome.
You have handled worse than this.
Youve got this, Captain.
#haikuized
You're deliberately being obtuse. Nobody said the things you accused us of saying when you said "seems to be..." Those were the conclusions you jumped to. You seem very eager to shut down any line of discussion that involves you doing something oth…
"He is not abusive." I disagree with your assessment.
Also, you're putting words in my mouth with your, "the advice seems to be..." If you want things to be different, YOU have to do something different. What you're doing now is a colossal cluste…