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stu3O said: So, how is the proper way for him to broach the fact that he figured that out? I'll ask him. I'm highly, *highly* attracted to intelligence. So for me, his ability to track me down, given weak clues, is a definite sign of i…
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I am dealing with an odd bit of online dating. A couple weeks ago I got a comment on one of the posts on my Hilda blog, from a man who wanted to meet me, and recognized what town I lived in. [I have a post on garbled bus announcements, and he inter…
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I'm so glad you got to spend at least part of Christmas with your son!
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One of the best exercises in "talk to everyone" I know is to take a part time job as a retail clerk. The store I worked in (a year ago) encouraged us to chat with customers. With the checkout counter between me and them I felt safe, and I knew I'd …
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Ildundra said: How do you people feel; how useful is "The Married Guy's Guide to Wife" to a woman? Very much useful, even to a single woman. Athol uses a new frame for much of him material, the 6 brands of ... attraction, comfort and sexual…
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You need to try it. You need to try lots of things, and expect most of them to fail.But the ones that don't ... will be keepers. Your attitude through the experiments is key ... no getting pissy or frustrated if things don't work, rather "Well, no…
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I'm transferring over my last post in my Gold thread ... to heck with anonymity, it's going to be gone in 3 days anyway. -------- I just finished saving off my entire MAP thread (except for this page, which I will later this week) and re-reading it…
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I'm surprised I didn't already own Nice Card, Mean Card. I own it now. I now own everything except the pants book. Thank you.
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TheBoringGirl said: i don't want to hijack the post but i have always felt that guys didn't like me because i was boring. my exH said one of the reasons he was leaving me was because i was boring. and i haven't been interesting enough for any …
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TheBoringGirl said: i agree that dating isn't marriage. but I'm not dating some guy who has a side girl who is his fwb and denies it. I'd probably Next! that man too ... not because he was dating/screwing others but because he was d…
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Nope. Would you warn him that you have brown hair? Will be wearing a blue dress? If he can't pick you out in a crowd, you can give a brief description: I'm tall, have shoulder length brown hair, and will be wearing a blue dress. The word "warn" c…
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One of my own dating issues is that I don't give men a chance. I am picky. I have 127* former husbands, and never felt a real strong attraction to any of them. My track record when I'm not picky enough sucks. On the other hand, if I'm too picky, I…
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I break all the rules when I cook beans from scratch. Half the time I put them in a pot with water and simmer until tender. The other half I put them in a pot with water, bring to a boil, turn off the heat and let sit an hour, drain, refill and sim…
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Welcome! One thing I'd strongly recommend is reading Athol's two books. The Primer will give you insight into how men think. Since we have to live amongst them, and hopefully with them, it helps to know what men are like. They are different than …
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I'll keep repeating myself again* My idea was to have a gathering spot for active MAPpers to have accountability partners. NOT to replace the current MMSL forum with an equivalent. No new members, no lurkers, no active coaching, only peer suggesti…
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SignorePillolaRossa said: imo, one of the long range goals for the new forum should be to allow new members ... i understand why it is to be exclusively a closed group at inception ... but closed communities get stale ... new blood will refresh…
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Reborn said: Hah. You have just invented yourself a full-time, unpaid job. Over to Athol for comment.... It's odd ... almost as soon as I read Athol was closing the forum, I was at Google setting up the group. I didn't even stop to t…
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In my part of the world, not only do we say "Fuck Cancer!", we say ETHOOL Enjoy the Heck Out Of Life.
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Wow! I'm so busy sending out emails for the new group that I barely have time to keep up with MMSL. Which is definitely not dead yet. [I'm not dead yet!] There are too many of us, and we're too talkative to stay on Google groups. I'm looking into …
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Scarlet and I both recommend Lundy Bancroft when appropriate. If I was the one who gave you the insight, you're very welcome! As a woman who went through abuse, and dealt with a very high conflict divorce from an abusive man, I'd love to open the…
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@223552, I'm sorry if you feel "knocked back". The new group is not the place for someone new to MMSL concepts and the MAP. None of us are coaches, none of us are trained at helping you work through your issues. You definitely need that to start th…
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Can someone who joined successfully help? I have to leave for work very soon.
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Angeline, I'm going to miss your insights.
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Email or PM your email address to me any time. Because of my work schedule, I'll only be sending out invites in the evening (Eastern USA time zone).
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I set up a separate thread about "the refugee camp". Let's not clutter this thread with posts that belong there.
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Back when BrianC posted the original 90 day porn detox, I saved out all his posts, as a future gift to my son. Brian did such an excellent job of explaining the ethics of being a good and honorable man, and staying one in the face of modern distrac…
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I would not want Athol's data. I'm not a coach or therapist, and don't want the responsibility of managing an open forum like this one ... a job Athol has done wonderfully. My new group is definitely a supplement ... was it Nubby who called it a "r…
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