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  • Re: Bean's MAP

    Another decent week

    Household: In regards to @DaddyOh suggestion of having a party often...this month is shaping up to be like that. W and I got the house cleaned up this week to prepare for company. Now we have to make sure it stays that way.

    Physical: I've been thinking more about getting into the gym to weight lift...still not at that point. I still cannot find the motivation. I don't know if it's more a case of me being content with my current shape or laziness.

    Dress: This week I've been focusing on grooming and conditioning my beard (which I've never done, I usually grow it out until I can't stand it, then shave) so it's looking fuller and more professional. My wife commented and asked why I'm so concerned about my looks. I told her I'm just trying some new things.

    I'm noticing more IOI with my new style. I was at my local Walmart a week and a half ago and there as a worker there who was very cute, maybe mid-20s and looked very out of place working there (nothing against WM staff). She was staring so hard that I had to break her concentration to let her know a customer was trying to get her attention behind her. I saw her again yesterday when I was in line and she coincidentally took the cashiers place before I got to the register. When it was my turn, she said I looked too young to have grey hair...I told her she wouldn't believe my age...she guessed 23, told her she was way off (mid-30s) but told her it's good to know I still look young. Needless to say I walked away with a grin.

    Social: My friends are planning a night out for my bday....I can tell my W is not too happy because when we were at a gathering a few weeks ago, one of my friends hinted at a strip club being in the plans which she overheard. I'm not a SC kind of guy and this will be the 2nd time I've gone to one since we've been married. I'm trying not to get drawn into her frame on this because she knows this isn't my usual MO. She even hinted half jokingly that she's going to have a GNO that will make me jealous. I'm going to have fun regardless and enjoy the guy time which I rarely get out and do.

    Insecurity/Jealousy: Even though I planned to say something to my wife's beta-orbiting classmate, I didn't have to. I guess she said something to him to make him back off. I ended up seeing him after class and he completely ignored both of us. Still keeping on eye on him in case I need to mate-guard.

    Sex: No real complaints here this week. 4x last week which may be a new record for us. But I feel myself about to get into the "Reciprocal Orgasm" cycle. She had difficulty having one last week and spent 30 minutes trying...I could tell she was disappointed. No attempts to have one since then and I don't know why that's eating at me when I shouldn't let it.
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