Lol. No I worry that 'too much' is me being a selfish control freak. I feel great about bringing my whole self to my husband and enjoying sex with him. It's awesome.
@Tennee Yes, that was quite a night for me. 3 ass slaps (husband), two murmurings of "You are really looking good" in my ear during the end-of-the-night-hugs (husband's colleagues) and hair play with the owner's girlfriend. Well okay then. I think I'm set until next year's party.
Here's a few things that have helped my with my fine, thin hair:
Products. Keep buying 'em until you find the ones that work for you. Nioxin is universally recommended for thin hair, but I didn't find it very helpful. Here are the ones I am currently using:
Eprouvage products - I use the gentle volume shampoo and the fortifying conditioner. I highly recommend Eprouvage.
Redensyl - I use the Eprouvage serum, and I really believe this works. It helps lessen shedding. I have used a few different redensyl serums and liked them all.
Rogaine - I buy the 5% once-a-day foam on Amazon. It's only about $10 a month
Do Not Touch The Hair Policy - I do not touch my hair. I no longer blow it dry. I wear a scarf-like thing over it at night in bed so nothing pulls on it at all. I comb it before I get into the shower and a little after I towel dry. My hair dries curly and I am just going with it.
No matter what you do, it will take a few months for you to notice any difference. Other people are noticing my hair. In fact, at the company Christmas party I had a woman cuddle up to me at the end of the night to run her hands through my hair and talk about how great it is. That was a new experience for me. And...um...different. Real different. More better hair, I guess. Right?
Thanks to Athol, Jen and Rebecca all of their hard work and good advice. Thanks especially for being patient and allowing the forum to exist for as long as it has. Thank you moderators for your work on the forum. And thanks to all who have participated on this forum. You have been honest and helpful and interesting and enlightening.