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  • Re: Leoslayer's Update

    Action over words. Go there and grab your stuff. Do not tell her. If she needs an answer tell her "I will not be your 'sometimes'" 

    We were not put on this earth to be a place holder for someone. Or a parenthesis. Do not wait for someone to get their shit together. 

    The mind games you're playing in your head is unhealthy. 
    BeatriceamblrgirlTenneeLL80JellyBeanMiddleMan
  • Re: He married and I think he is into me please help

    As stated above, what's wrong with your marriage? You did not mention your husband at all. Personally, I would work on my marriage and stay away from the other man. Because if you say you're safe in this situation, I say that's a copout. You may not be able to help the way you feel, but you absolutely can control what you do. 

    I have a theory that the range of emotions are what really keep women hooked in affairs. Husbands are available, thus boring...Married Men is unpredictable hot and cold thus exciting.

    Stay away. 
    BlackwulfTenneewranglerTrumanMiddleMan
  • Re: Workout and diet accountability thread

    Fran 
    21-15-9 Thrusters and pull-ups 
    Non RX at 75lbs
    Time: 5:05

    My RX Time is 6:06

    No wonder Fran is a great barometer. I was in a fetal position for a solid 2 min after the workout. 
    CavemanozzyTenneeBeatrice
  • Re: Sexual Aversion/Open Marriage

    Ah yes, control. But remember, control goes out the window when she's by herself on Saturday night watching The Notebook and dipping her tears in Haagen Dazc Ice cream.

     She can't control you if you sever ties. But believe me, A light bulb will go off in her head. And that's when you can expect a flood of "miss you" texts and phone calls. Then you need to ask yourself. Does she miss me? Or does she miss the control? From what you've shared with us, it appears your a strong person. You'll do what's best for you. Wish you luck.
    IrishGypsySharkGuyBlackwulfTenneenubbyHildaCornersfordsvt
  • Re: Sexual Aversion/Open Marriage

    frillyfun said:
    I would dispel any notion that you'll get back together after a divorce.  That's not healthy for anyone, and especially not your kids.

    She fights now, or she walks away forever.  It's that simple. 
    Yup. She's under the assumption of "Once we're apart he'll see how much he misses me". It does not work like that. 

    People ask me if I still talk to my ExW, and my response is always the same. "I don't water dead flowers"

    Mic Drop.
    IrishGypsynubbyShepardTenneeMiddleManfrillyfunwranglerHildaCornersamblrgirlLennyRico