One other thing I like to add. Have enough items (topics) checked off that you'll never have a boring date. Boring guy, Yes. Boring date, No.
I recently ran a race, and I'm quite active. Health topic on a date? Check.
Soomeone here (wink) recommended "the 4 hour work week" book. Books? Check.
I can name players stats, wins and losses for all local teams. Sports? Yup.
Politics? Recently a date asked me "Don't tell me you voted for Trump?" My response. "I voted, but it doesn't matter who's in office. Because Honey, I'm administration Proof".
One last thing. On second date, I always try to make the topic a little uncomfortable. I gauge her reaction.
I put my social life on hold for 2 years (post divorce) and dropped 20 lbs. No regrets.
You guys kept me accountable. Will miss this thread (and the site). Reached my Goal of Bench Pressing 225lbs and I'm looking for more.
In regards to over eating during the holidays. My CF coach gave me some good advice. He said; Your brain reaches a pinnacle rush at the 3rd bite. Everything after that is compensation.
Ill give this theory a try. 3 bites for everything on the table this holiday season.