Please Stop having sex. I read the following in Men's Health mag a few years ago. Wife cheated. Husband kicked her out. She came back on a monthly basis for some action. Husband moved on, but couldn't resist the sex with the Ex 

After a few months, he had to see a MD due to the burning sensation. Yeah, he got it from her. 

The card incident is pretty pathetic. Agree with others, point to mouse and say "Your friend, you do it".

Having a feeling your wife could've set aside 5 min from SnapChatting, facebooking, DVRing and done it herself the previous night. 

"I could get a flight tomorrow and never see her again.  In some ways that appeals to me"

14 months ago did just that ^^. 

Thanks for the feedback. Prior to posting I was set on just walking away. You guys bring up interesting, and insightful points. I guess I do owe myself at the very least a Fight.

Couple more points to the story.
She has her attorney meeting on Friday morning (she doesn't hide it from me, whenever I ask when's her next appoint, she gives me the time and date).

At the end of the month, both of us have to fly back to the east coast for an extended weekend (my best friend's getting married). I already thought of a plan. I will tell her of the divorce on the way back (I do not want my best friend to affiliate his wedding with my divorce-he doesn't know anything about our separation)
 
Yes I agree, I should go after compensation. @tiger you are not the only one that reminds me of the "gaps" on my resume. I am struggling with this.

However, what I am not struggling with is the actual Divorce. Once I made up my mind, I am so relived. I am at peace. Im looking forward to being alone. That's what drives me right now. And I do think, my best revenge is living well.

In my previous posts, I mentioned a Buddy who divorced 3 years ago (Im friends with him and his ex, they had no kids). He just walked away, it was very amicable. In a way, he laid a blueprint, of how it should be done. He's back on his feet. Has a GF. Is living well.

July 1st is the date we fly back, and July 1st will be the start of the new beginning.