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Sexual dominanceWell we talk about this all the time, but I'm specifically talking about it here from the frame of breaking bad sexual patterns. My dominance in bed was absolutely the biggest factor in breaking this reciprocal sex cycle. I lead the sex. I took what I wanted. I threw her around, I pulled her hair, I grabbed her throat, I fucked her into the bed. I went with instinct and that broke the whole pattern completely. No more "by the book", or chasing orgasms, or just doing whatever worked last time. I let the beast out.Of course this conflicts somewhat with what I said above, which is quite "purposeful". I had to marry the two ways of being together: there was an overall purpose of improving our sex from session to session, and breaking out of the pattern we were in. But being dominant and animalistic where necessary factors in doing that - I could not just "science" my way out of it.I did a lot of other dominant things too of course - put my cock in her mouth when I felt like it, spoke dirty to her during sex, sent her sexts, etc.... all the usual stuff we talk about here.SO... this all started having a cumulative effect - feeling more comfortable with her body, feeling sexier, enjoying penetration, being dominated passionately, etc... it all added up... and we got back to the flowing organic joyful sexual experiences that we'd had together in the old days.