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  • Re: Closing the Forum on 12-27-16

    PhoenixDownPhoenixDown
    Thank you so much for what you do, Athol. We haven't posted much lately, but things are going well, thanks to you and Jen. 

    I remember you said you were looking at Dallas to move to once the kids are out of the house... If you do end up in the area, shoot us an email, we'd love to buy you a beer and maybe some BBQ. :)
    IrishGypsyTenneeWinterLittlejoefrillyfunAngelineBourneAgainsashaSmashmasterjonBlackwulfamblrgirlBlueWolfTemplarPurpleGuitarslingerPersephone

  • Re: MMSL & The MBTI

    PhoenixDownPhoenixDown
    I can fake ENTF really well! 

    It's interesting to me how many INTJ's there are. It's also interesting that we all tend to be married to ENT*'s, IIRC. 
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  • Re: Is it ever not a big deal to be slapped?

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    spartacus said:
    DSL, you say you are hanging on for your kids, and I understand that. But consider this. Are you doing just as much damage staying in this kind of relationship where they are learn and actively model what they see. With ramped up stress and the unstable structure? Or will they be better off where at least half the time things are solid...and sober. Violence is over the line. If she can't control that, what's to stop her from smacking your boy when she gets frustrated with him.  
    If it were me, that would be the catalyst.  Just think about it. Also,  I think about your patience often, its admirable, but at some point it ceases to be a asset and becomes a flaw. 
    Make sure you document the crap out it at the very least.



    This is one of the things that caused me to be here. Had no idea what a good functional relationship was till many years after mine had gone to shit. 

    You don't have to be perfect to leave, Doc. Because no one is perfect. There is no end point to mapping. It's constant improvement and never ending. There's always something to work on, always something that's been neglected and needs to be picked up again. 

    If you wait till you're perfect, you'll never leave. And I suspect this is not the actual reason why you're staying. 

    Please, be careful giving your children this kind of marriage to model. 
    TenneeHildaCornersMariadrstrangeloveBlackwulfAngelineWinterspartacusHusband3point0JellyBean

  • Re: temptation 101

    PhoenixDownPhoenixDown
    Don't put yourself in a situation where it's an option. Don't isolate yourself with this person. 
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  • Re: Best IOIs

    PhoenixDownPhoenixDown
    Peter Dinklage was GQ's Man of the Year in 2011. It's all about attitude.
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