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This^^^^^^^Angeline said:You aren't fucked up, you just didn't want to quit. That is the single biggest predictor of success, not what method and certainly not how many years. My mom smoked for over 60 years. Cdr. Awesome smoked for almost 40. They both just stopped, cold turkey. Don't let that number get in your head.
Have to echo this. I spent quite a bit of time on the shrink4men site while I was laid up. I ended up convincing myself (and some folks on this forum) that my wife was BSC.Reborn said:I saw you posted on another thread about a shrink4men article on hostile dependency. It's an interesting read, but I would ask you to be aware that (a) it's not a widely accepted concept, and (b) shrink4men is focused on men with badly disordered wives - it's NOT a neutral site. It tends to take a position of "lets work out what's wrong with your wife".
You would need to take a careful view of whether your wife is as bad as what that article is describing.