As it turns out, my husband's schedule has shifted such that his Vitamin D followup appointment got shifted three weeks further back, into June, so now it will be almost two months from the previous appointment. That's both good and bad. Bad, because he won't do anything else on the medical/hormone front until after that, but good because it gives him more time for the supplementation to take effect.

He's been taking 30-50k/day since the physical appointment, and aside from the improved sex the last time (which was only a couple days after starting supplementation anyway), I haven't noticed any particular change in him yet. Probably too soon to tell, I know, and anyway it's D and not T. He's also taking zinc and K2.

No sex since that one time a week ago, and there probably won't be for two weeks since it's SW now. I was satisfied enough to channel my energy into other things for two days, but by Wednesday I was considering initiating, except that I didn't want the extra cooking I'd done to be a covert contract or anything. Plus I'm sort of worried that the next time isn't going to be as good. I know there's a tendency for that when things are improving, and I wanted to hold onto the good time we'd had a while longer. So I didn't, and then SW started before the end of the week.

On the other hand, I was turned on enough that using the vibe on Wednesday and Thursday was super fast and easy. PMS week is supposed to be harder, I think, but maybe it's just gotten easier as I've practiced, and also by that point I had a good time with my husband to think about, which I didn't have before. I haven't even gotten out the ylang ylang oil recently.

Is your husband circumcised? If so, he's in a position to know the benefits (and whatever downsides you think are critical) firsthand in a way that you are not. Plus in general it's easier if a son is the same as his father. If he's circumcised, he wouldn't be able to show his uncircumcised son how to wash himself correctly, for instance. If he isn't, why is he so adamantly for it for a possible son? There are pros and cons and arguments both ways, as I'm sure you know, but it sounds like this might be one of the more pressing issues for you to resolve right now.

TooEarlyTooLate said:

He gets up early but does not go to work in morning. Does he work from home?  What is he doing in the morning?  Possible morning release?  It would zap your energy.  

He does go to work in the morning, just not that early. I'm rarely awake to see what he's doing, but I think he just does work email or other things on his computer before I get up. He gets us up about 7 and then leaves for work around 7:30. Back home at 6 for dinner, the little one's in bed by 7:30, and then he goes to bed around 9 usually. That's a typical weekday.

Morning sex? If he wanted it, you'd think he'd get me up earlier, but he never does. I think we've had morning sex once or twice in the past year or so. The one time I remember specifically was when I woke up early and woke him up for it, because he's said in the past he didn't mind if I woke him up for morning sex. He participated, but he was a bit annoyed I'd woken him up because we were going to leave for a trip that day and he wanted to sleep longer before getting up to load the car. I didn't think it was a big deal because I woke him up maybe half an hour or so earlier than we would have had to get up anyway. I haven't tried again since.