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  Aklattle → soa2005

  What do you do for a living?

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  April 8
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  soa2005 earned the 250 Insightfuls badge.

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  March 16
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  soa2005 earned the 500 Comments badge.

  Settled in, saw the sights, learned the territory, and most importantly: gave back.

  December 2015
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  soa2005 and dalef earned the 100 Awesomes badge.

  You received 100 Awesomes. When you're liked this much, you'll be an MVP in no time!

  March 2015
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  Terps4Life → soa2005

  Wanted to thank you for your comment.  :-)  Also was curious...was it a PA or an EA you and your wife went through.  Also does she still work with the guy in question?
  

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  February 2015
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    soa2005

    My wife had a pa. My wife did not work with the OM at the time but her place of employment would have had them coming into contact again in the future. My situation occurred before I was familiar with mmsl. I didn't really know the whole mmsl ultimatum concept so I kind of learned as I went along. For a couple weeks after DDay we both did a lot of soul searching and discussed what we both needed from each other to move forward. Within a couple weeks of dday I had her quit her job and she was fine with it. My situation may differ from yours. I'm the breadwinner and her job only brought home a little spending money so it didn't really hurt us financially. My wife and I have agreed that when she does eventually see the OM at a social gathering or in passing that she will not speak to him and tell me right away.

    February 2015
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  soa2005 earned the 500 Agrees badge.

  You received 500 Agrees. It ain't no fluke, you post great stuff and we're lucky to have you here.

  February 2015
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  soa2005 earned the 25 LOLs badge.

  You received 25 LOLs. You're posting some good content. Great!

  October 2014
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  soa2005 earned the 250 Agrees badge.

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  October 2014
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  soa2005 earned the First Anniversary badge.

  Thanks for sticking with us for a full year.

  September 2014
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  soa2005 earned the 5 LOLs badge.

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  August 2014
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  soa2005 earned the Photogenic badge.

  Little things like uploading a profile picture make the community a better place. Thanks!

  August 2014
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  soa2005 and Our_Heroine earned the 100 Comments badge.

  Getting this far requires gumption, something you have in spades.

  August 2014